So how does one become responsible? Lets suppose you have never made a big decision in your life regarding yourself or anyone else. Now you have to take possibly the biggest decision of your life and you are scared to take responsibility for it. You want to but you are scared of ending up in a mess Specially when you have never made any decision khud sey, you are what they call mommy’s boy (well girl in my case)
What would u do? Is there a short way to growing up at once?
although there are events that can jolt a person and suddenly make them responsible people, usually it is a gradual event, diff ppl end up at diff levels based on diff criteria of what they consider being responsible.
eventually you will have to take major decisions that impact your life, but what we dont realize we make many smalld ecisions as children that have an impact..some shortterm some long term, once u understand that u have made decisions for yourself and have handled their results, you will become more confident.
just do due diligance before making any decision, be willing to deal with the potential negative outcome, while looking forward to the positive outcomes and you will do well. Be more self confident and that will help as well.
hmmm well Mr Frauds says it all I guess, one doesn t become 'responsible ' just like that :)
waise if you are responsible for a thing, or a choice,
keep following thing in mind:
-Always check the pro s and con s
-and ask other s about their opinions and what their thought are about it :)
- dont hurry making decisions and take your time to think it all over :)
good luck,
p.s. has this got to do with the smoking part aswell ;) cuz I think I know where this is leading to :p I wish u all the best in advance fanta :biggthumb
u already forgot the lecture i gave u larki !!! … its about time u should start makin ur own decision.. i kno it would take a lot of time to get used to it .. but then… sooner or later u havto …go for it :k: …
Specially when you have never made any decision khud sey, you are what they call mommy’s boy (well girl in my case) 
u already forgot the lecture i gave u larki !!! 
… its about time u should start makin ur own decision.. i kno it would take a lot of time to get used to it .. but then… sooner or later u havto …go for it :k: … 