Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
uffffff --- thank god , mashAllah my sister's inlaws are real nice ppl , she is a 1 in a million , i think , i wish to have same kind of susraal :)
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
i want suggestions for my sis about her Susral how to deal with them after marriage coz my BR inlaw is not understading now that his GHARWALAY creating misunderstanding between my sis and him.
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
i want suggestions for my sis about her Susral how to deal with them after marriage coz my BR inlaw is not understading now that his GHARWALAY creating misunderstanding between my sis and him.
If ur sis's husband is understanding then there is no problem for her just ignore them or bear them for the happiness of her husband till he shift in a new home totally empty wid susraal !
Yehi aik hal hai if she do sumthin 2 em or force her husband to do so then more disturbance vl happen (ALLAH na Kare Amin )
My prayers are with her (listening to azaan) May ALLAH grant her peace in her family Amin !
But baki ppl iss k ulat sochtay hain k larki ko bolna chaiye yeh karna chaiye woh karna chaiye uss se disturbance he aur barhti hia aur kuch nahi hota mei ne kai novels parhay hain jin mein yehi prob hoti hai if larki achi aur samjhdaar ho to aik na aik din susraal waloon k dil mein jagah bana he laiti hai !
if mein ne kuch ghalat kaha ho uss k liye ma'azrat aur kisi ko taseeh karni ho meri baat ki to plz do i vl be pleased !
Regards
Bl SiD !!!
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Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
well it depends on u...if u want 2 be true 2 yrself and others than just be yrself and thats the best thing u can do...but having said that it doesnt mean u dun have 2 make adjustments...every1 has 2 ....even yr husband's family wl have 2 make sum and so wl u...its a part of life...but i know atleast for myself that i wud try 2 be as honest as possible...for example if i didnt like something my mil said i wud politely tell her that instead of crying it 2 my husband...now ofcourse if she doesnt respond well 2 me than i wl be left with no option...but ya at the end of the day the girls shud alwayz think before how they treat their husband's family...just like the husband and his family shud think 2wice b4 how they treat their new family member...dont forget guyz what u do 2 them can happen 2 yr parents and just imagine how u wl feel in that case and ofcourse 2 those who treat their dil's bad they shud think abt their daughters and how it feels 2 see them unhappy....
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
nice post…well said :k:
the bold part above is the main thing…if the husband is understanding that’s really all that matters.
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
Someone needs to write the 21st century version of Mirat Ul Aroos.
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
What women rights were at stake in the fight between aisha and ali? 
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
hahahhaah oh my god that first paragraph that u wrote....is that something that u did? are u asking how u should act? i say be urself...that other fakeness is just fake unless u really naturally love do ing that then go rt ahead....but cant say that i personally have or will ever do that!
Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
queenbee its an open question for to be discussed