Re: responsibilities of a duaghter in law
Be wary of setting a precedent - it could come back to bite you in 5 years time, when you can't keep up the routine/tolerance any longer!!!!!!
Exactly my thoughts! I have seen my sisters and friends going through that and I have just stopped being the nice girl. Not that I have become bad tameez but I am just drawing the lines between what is acceptable for my health - both physical and mental health.
My mother in law and father in law are easy to deal with. But my SIL is mostly looking for new adventures and thats where I have drawn a clear line of distance. A bit sad since I started our relationship as sisters and have turned into a stranger cuz of the way she has dealt with me in the past years. I just hope that she wont start complaining to my husband that I have become cold and distant.