Solve the problem at source. Keep the mouth shut. :)
Its probably the same as what armughal just said too.
Seriously, why share anything with anyone, which you don't want known elsewhere? Someone said "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead". Although in some cases, sharing is unavoidable, but the rule of thumb stays. I don't know how many times, I have said this in this very forum "share info strictly on need-to-know basis". Its a life-saver rule! :)
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How many chances would you give, if any at all?
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It would be a mistake to give chances to that kinda person wouldn't it Fret ??
And if it becomes inconvinient or difficult to break relationship, i try to avoid discussing personal stuff with that particular person. i beleive in being cautious. :)
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Solve the problem at source. Keep the mouth shut. :)
Its probably the same as what armughal just said too.
Seriously, why share anything with anyone, which you don't want known elsewhere? Someone said "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead". Although in some cases, sharing is unavoidable, but the rule of thumb stays. I don't know how many times, I have said this in this very forum "share info strictly on need-to-know basis". Its a life-saver rule!
^ I hope I shared that information with you on strictly that basis. Did I do the right thing ? Ooh , I better be careful... :)
Fret, that same person who betrayed your trust broke my trust too. I shared somevbery personal info with her (out of my stupidity) and next thing she was yapping it out in main chat and exploiting it to the fullest.
I would not give her any chance.
Fret, as a rule of thumb, you should keep the colors of your underwear's front and back to yourself.
FG and FW. :(
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It would be a mistake to give chances to that kinda person wouldn't it Fret ??
And if it becomes inconvinient or difficult to break relationship, i try to avoid discussing personal stuff with that particular person. i beleive in being cautious. :)
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Good point. You see, I'm the type of person to give second and third chances (which I have in this case), but one has to draw the line somewhere. It's unfortunate that some people have no notion of trust, and can take advantage of a person who is forgiving.
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Fret dude, you do it Arab style **GET RIDE* of that person......SERIOUSLY!
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what a coincidence.. that's Peshawar style too!
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I hate these type of ppl 
I wold neverevr talk to him/her…
well the problem is not u talking to him/her but him/her talking to everybody else about you..
get them whacked.. make sure u're out of town when it's done.
I agree. That's the best solution. If you can somehow make it more dramatic then have a depicated dead horse head lying next to them in the bed when they wake up in the morning.
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have a depicated dead horse head lying next to them in the bed when they wake up in the morning.
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If its not their own horse, it won't likely have the same "screaming" effect, so next time, u divulge ur deep dark secrets to someone, first check if they own a horse, and are they suitably attached to him/her (the horse, I mean) as well. Tell them, its just pre-cautionary. A man can't be too careful, these days.
Thanks for all your great advice, and comments folks. I fully intend to stay away from this person, and untrustworthy people in general. :)