Re: Respect in Islam
Shaykh didn't mention that we should respect our inlaws as servants. He didn't say we have to serve our inlaws anywhere in the video, its in your own head. He told this hadith for 3 or 4 times, " "He who does not respect the elders amongst us and is not merciful upon the young is not one of us."
Respecting elders does not mean serving them.
Don't know what are you on about?
He said about parents you should serve them.
** Head main tu mju mery hy tum nahi samjho gi na samjhn achahti ho Allah Allah khyr salla I am saying from this thing many people extract that disrespecting daughter in laws is allowed in Islam but they need to serve others with respect.**
Bat sy bat nikalti hy Hareem is qisam ki tqareer sy ju shadi shuda orton ki zindagi jahanm ban rahi hy na main janti hon.Dykho is molana ka fatwa hy orat tu admi ki izat kary admi ko kahin hukam nahi
When they said men are "qwwamon" Now many women are raising their families now I believe they are "qwwam" because what was husband's duty she is performing NOW SHE NEED RESPECT but these rigid mulas don't take that NO NO. Try to understand when he is saying I can not change ............. You have to understand a when Allah asked him to provide "Nan and nafqa" Allah was aware many men are not able to do this so They will be thank full to their waives that they are helping them but what is our mentality even she is raising her family even he is not providing her NAN O NAFQA he is qwaam. Because our Ulmma are men they do not want to understand and not want to give any reilefe to women it happened.
He did not talk about family laws I know but I am aware of those consequences after these type of speeches I am talking about that.