Re: resisting a woman
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resisting is like winning half the battle. if other party persists then either your resistance will fail or you will become upset, agitated and will do something out of the ordinary and possibly against the law. its important that your resistance also puts an end to other partys' persistence. desperate people tends to bring the best/worst out of others which depends on how others react..
Re: resisting a woman
Depends on the situation really, depends who that gal/woman is, why she is after you, how important she is to you etc etc , so many questions to answer.....So yh it does depend on the situation :)
^ resisting is like winning half the battle. if other party persists then either your resistance will fail or you will become upset, agitated and will do something out of the ordinary and possibly against the law. its important that your resistance also puts an end to other partys' persistence. desperate people tends to bring the best/worst out of others which depends on how others react..
Yes. Resisting is like winning half the battle as you said.
And
Resistance has to be strong if it really means well.
I love to watch your amusement and happiness.
@PrincesMS She might not be interested all the Men but one! I am not talking about women who sleep around. you given the solution to avoid and these are good.
I wasn't implying - she will give into the friend. Its just to make her realize....
Re: resisting a woman
this is an example of a man being stalked. and it is unacceptable, protecting this man, is essential. he should have and keep his self respect, and if he is not weak of his integrity and morality, he wont necessarily give in to a person, whom a) he may actually not have liked, b) he might be a naive person, being seduced by someone
such situations, might sound sizzling but in reality the selfish need of any kind, of such people could be a clear sign of how truthfull and respect giving such a woman can be, towards a given good character man.
choice is his.
normally, men are expected to drool in return, or worse, exploit such a woman, as a societally negligible effect.
but an upright man will in fact do these two things.
a) protect his sense of sound and ethical decisiveness
& b) reclaim such a woman from her lost sense of self respect
this is an example of a man being stalked. and it is unacceptable, protecting this man, is essential. he should have and keep his self respect, and if he is not weak of his integrity and morality, he wont necessarily give in to a person, whom a) he may actually not have liked, b) he might be a naive person, being seduced by someone
such situations, might sound sizzling but in reality the selfish need of any kind, of such people could be a clear sign of how truthfull and respect giving such a woman can be, towards a given good character man.
choice is his. normally, men are expected to drool in return, or worse, exploit such a woman, as a societally negligible effect.
but an upright man will in fact do these two things.
a) protect his sense of sound and ethical decisiveness & b) reclaim such a woman from her lost sense of self respect
Your post suggest the man is helpless and needs to be rescued.
Your post suggest woman will lose her self respect.
Can we not call these just an assumptions in your part?
For all we know, she will go home 'smiling' and satisfied and will gain her
self confidence overpowering the so called strong and well-built man!!!!!
Most men would give in to temptation
I agree
Re: resisting a woman
If a women was to have an affair with a married guy, and they got together, then the women can't really blame him, if he cheated on her again can she....
LOL @ the reaction by some men!
If they're married/committed they'll prolly put an end to the advances.. if they're single, most of them wud give in to temptation and say "my lucky day" in their head!
LOL @ the reaction by some men!
If they're married/committed they'll prolly put an end to the advances.. if they're single, most of them wud give in to temptation and say "my lucky day" in their head!
Aakhir 'zameer' bhi koi cheez hoti hai ;)
Aakhir 'zameer' bhi koi cheez hoti hai ;)
Zameer dikhnay mein kaisa hai? ;)
LOL @ the reaction by some men!
If they're married/committed they'll prolly put an end to the advances.. if they're single, most of them wud give in to temptation and say "my lucky day" in their head!
sorry, even in my single horndog playa days i had some preferences and just cuz some floozy threw herself at me did not mean she was going to get a shag.
sorry, even in my single horndog playa days i had some preferences and just cuz some floozy threw herself at me did not mean she was going to get a shag.
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhha. wth is that.
Re: resisting a woman
married men should stay far away from affairs unless they want to ruin their own lives.
and that will be something that time will tell for them before a malicious woman will tell them.
that is why, it is quite clear in the religion too, will never give space for such a ruinous breach in trust between two people. one being married and the other who ought to have shame and self respect and fear of God, not to ruin another woman's home.
men need to take clear responsibility on their part in following ethics of relations, period!!!
yeh cheezz
Re: resisting a woman
well these things do come in your way no matter u are a man or a woman, to get your faith tested.
if he-she really likes someone then its better to pray for him/her rather than showing desperation and act like a total loser.
it is not bad to love someone but it is also not good to act like you own them.
ps. if you ask me, the best thing is to ask ALLAH SWT to get u the one who is good for you and not the one you think is good for you. after all "or insaan shar ko is terha mangta hai jis terha khair ko, bayshaq insaan bara he jaldbaz wakay howa hai" (Surah bani-Israeel , para 15)"
