Hey RupayHalwa!
Hmm, this person that you are talking about seems rather immature…is she still in highschool, LOL? Well, you know the famous saying, “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.” Why would you imitate/copy something that you do not like?
She likes your style…therefore she copies it…but she’s way too insecure to admit that she’s copying you…and thats why she likes to pass off your ideas as her own.
It is very obvious that she is jealous of you…otherwise why would she copy you and then put you down at the same time? And jealousy stems from insecurity.
Think about it…she is superficial enough to tell you that you’re ugly. Why would she even bother? Why is she so concerned about looks? Looks are not the most important thing int the world…but for an insecure person like her…looks mean a lot. People who are more secure and confident with themselves also work on developing their PERSONALITIES…which this little girl…has failed to do.
It seems like she does not have the confidence to develop her own unique sense of style or personality…because she’s not sure of her self…she’s insecure…so it’s much easier to steal the ideas from you.
In my opinion, Halwa, there’s no point in going up to this girl and telling her to piss off and stop copying you. Cuz, she’ll just go around saying that YOU ARE JEALOUS of HER. (You know she will).
So, just be the **bigger **person. Ignore her. In fact, try to LIMIT YOUR CONTACT WITH HER as much as possible. Don’t be around her. Avoid her…I mean it’s not like you enjoy hanging out with her in the first place. Hopefully, the less she sees of you, the less she’ll have to copy, hehe.
Feel sorry for her, she has such a fragile self-esteem. The next time, if you EVER, see the girl doing something unique (not copied)…Be the bigger person…AND COMPLIMENT HER!!! She’ll be shocked. She’ll hopefully feel bad about treating you wrong. And you’ll end up boosting her self-confidence…because it seems like she really needs some uplifting.
And if nothing works…then you might as well put that bottle of ketchup you hate so much to some good use…if you’re not gonna eat it…squirt the red goodness at her!!! …see,** ketchup** is multi-functional
THanks for the analysis ketchup, sorry, i mean redvelvet, i think most of it probably applies, except for the compliment bit, bcos i do compliment people when i think it doesn’t harm them, except it seems to go to her head, so now i’ll probably limit the compliments, i’ve already limited the contact to as much as i can given the circumstances.
I think u r def right about what she will say if confronted so i shall leave that for now.
The so and so (btw she is not a school kid!) is in for a barrage of ketchup if she attacks again!