Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men

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Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men

@Theorist

Read my post again. You misunderstood:*“**Does this mean women are driven to pursue higher education, get better jobs becuse their men are not doing enough? **Or maybe there is another way to look at it: people are consciously choosing their careers, jobs, and basically whatever the f they want to do with their lives. Well, at least that is how I look at it.”

Read where I said “that is how I look at it.” I am actually not at all for blaming. Everyone should be independent regardless of their gender. Why be a burden on anyone? If you have a good marriage and your spouse doesn’t want you to work or you don’t want to work, then don’t! Learn to read before you start labeling everyone and shoving words in their mouths. There is nothing wrong with wanting equality and balance. If that makes me a feminist then so be it! O by the way, you never told me what’s a feminist to you. I also talk about men’s rights, children’s rights, minorities’ rights, what does all of that make me?

It’s your wishful thinking that women are trying to be men. Most of us love being our gender and we too are trying to make the best of what we’ve got. Wanting balance and equality makes us human. Can you see why I find people so disappointing? The world keeps trying to make you like everyone else and kill your individuality. This world doesn’t get tired of putting people in labels and categories. We are never THIS OR THAT. We are always changing. *

@Theorist

Read my post again. You misunderstood:*“**Does this mean women are driven to pursue higher education, get better jobs becuse their men are not doing enough? **Or maybe there is another way to look at it: people are consciously choosing their careers, jobs, and basically whatever the f they want to do with their lives. Well, at least that is how I look at it.”

Read where I said “that is how I look at it.” I am actually not at all for blaming. Everyone should be independent regardless of their gender. Why be a burden on anyone? If you have a good marriage and your spouse doesn’t want you to work or you don’t want to work, then don’t! Learn to read before you start labeling everyone and shoving words in their mouths. There is nothing wrong with wanting equality and balance. If that makes me a feminist then so be it! O by the way, you never told me what’s a feminist to you. I also talk about men’s rights, children’s rights, minorities’ rights, what does all of that make me?

It’s your wishful thinking that women are trying to be men. Most of us love being our gender and we too are trying to make the best of what we’ve got. Wanting balance and equality makes us human. Can you see why I find people so disappointing? The world keeps trying to make you like everyone else and kill your individuality. This world doesn’t get tired of putting people in labels and categories. We are never THIS OR THAT. We are always changing. *

Some feminists want to work just because they want their freaking careers & thats what important to them not their family, husband, kids etc even when men are doing fine & supporting them in each & every aspect of life. You compromise on your family, kids & husband for your careers. I am not against working woman, I am against those who are just overburdening themselves just to prove guys that look we are no less than you, we can do whatever you folks are capable of doing. If you can earn, we can earn too. If you can pee while standing, we can pee that way too no matter if we have to carry an extra tool with us in our purses. Why don’t you chicks , who are soo into equality, understand the fact that male & female are different creatures. We all know you chicks play with barbies & we guys play with cars & sports stuff. And that’s not man made thing, its there in us when we were born. Why you chicks going against natural rules, what good it will do? So far it did nothing good but increased the divorce rate for sure.
Every relationship has its right & duties & when you enter that relationship those rights & duties are applicable on you. STOP making your own rules. Not sure about you but I, being a Muslim, follow the rules & regulations of Islam as much as I can & those rules & setup ( given in relationship) are the best ones given by Allah. Why go against them? Some feminsts are just getting out of control & thats about it.