Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
In a way tubelight is right. Not saying that women shouldnt work, but when men work they only focus on their work. When a women works, she also worries about her kids, her house, her husband, etc . Basically women have too much on their plate.
Anyways who wrote this report? I think it must be a man. First drive women nuts, and then come up with a report that says women have it in them to be mentally sick
Maybe they should rename the report: Men are good at giving women serious mental health problems.
Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
Ladies blaming guys again as always & my whole life I have seen guys who get half bald when they get married. Becharar shaadi k baad center se ganjay ho jaate hein
Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
Here we go again. Blaming the poor guy that he is not doing what he supposed to do. Well may be he is doing everything what he should but some feminists will not get satisfied no matter what those poor things do. What you feminist chicks are trying to prove? That you are men? Well surprise surprise.. you are not.
And with your feminism you drive your husbands crazy too, no wonder divorce rate is so high in the west.
Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
Read my post again. You misunderstood:*“**Does this mean women are driven to pursue higher education, get better jobs becuse their men are not doing enough? **Or maybe there is another way to look at it: people are consciously choosing their careers, jobs, and basically whatever the f they want to do with their lives. Well, at least that is how I look at it.”
Read where I said “that is how I look at it.” I am actually not at all for blaming. Everyone should be independent regardless of their gender. Why be a burden on anyone? If you have a good marriage and your spouse doesn’t want you to work or you don’t want to work, then don’t! Learn to read before you start labeling everyone and shoving words in their mouths. There is nothing wrong with wanting equality and balance. If that makes me a feminist then so be it! O by the way, you never told me what’s a feminist to you. I also talk about men’s rights, children’s rights, minorities’ rights, what does all of that make me?
It’s your wishful thinking that women are trying to be men. Most of us love being our gender and we too are trying to make the best of what we’ve got. Wanting balance and equality makes us human. Can you see why I find people so disappointing? The world keeps trying to make you like everyone else and kill your individuality. This world doesn’t get tired of putting people in labels and categories. We are never THIS OR THAT. We are always changing. *
Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
Some feminists want to work just because they want their freaking careers & thats what important to them not their family, husband, kids etc even when men are doing fine & supporting them in each & every aspect of life. You compromise on your family, kids & husband for your careers. I am not against working woman, I am against those who are just overburdening themselves just to prove guys that look we are no less than you, we can do whatever you folks are capable of doing. If you can earn, we can earn too. If you can pee while standing, we can pee that way too no matter if we have to carry an extra tool with us in our purses. Why don’t you chicks , who are soo into equality, understand the fact that male & female are different creatures. We all know you chicks play with barbies & we guys play with cars & sports stuff. And that’s not man made thing, its there in us when we were born. Why you chicks going against natural rules, what good it will do? So far it did nothing good but increased the divorce rate for sure.
Every relationship has its right & duties & when you enter that relationship those rights & duties are applicable on you. STOP making your own rules. Not sure about you but I, being a Muslim, follow the rules & regulations of Islam as much as I can & those rules & setup ( given in relationship) are the best ones given by Allah. Why go against them? Some feminsts are just getting out of control & thats about it.
Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
You are clearly speaking from your experience. Not all feminists are like that.
I hardly played with dolls and cars. I don’t even remember having any dolls but do remember having toy cars. I rode my bike around the neighborhood and collected and traded interesting stuff. I asked questions, almost drove my mom crazy. I built forts and made fun games out of stuff I found randomly. That was my childhood. Unless barbies and cars are made my something other than humans, you can’t say playing with them comes naturally. My husband has three nieces. One of them does not like dolls. Bought her lots of dolls, she doesn’t play with them for more than a minute. She likes interesting stuff, building stuff, stuff that inspires. My own niece doesn’t like dolls. She has a drawer full of Barbies, she doesn’t play with those. She loves puzzles. She loves to read. Every kid is different. Stop teaching them to be a certain way and let them be creative little humans. They will shine that way! Don’t kill their individuality before they even what it means.
Weren’t you just whining about how women care too much about their careers, home and kids? Now you have a problem when they pick one thing. In my opinion, both genders should learn to compromise. It’s not just a woman’s job to raise the kids. It took two to make them, it is going to take two to raise them. Both parents should be present. It should not become a tug of war.
Yes, men and women are different but before that every individual is different. We all have our interests and goals. Who is to decide what is okay for you is not okay for me? Why should I be the one to give up on my interests and passion in life and not you? Why can’t we meet halfway? See the thing about me is I reject everything that promotes bigotry and discrimination. This includes organized religions as well.
Re: Report: Women are more likely to have serious mental health problems than men
One word- HORMONES! Have a huge impact on mood and can lead to depression. I should know.
One week before the menstruation cycle I could barely function. I couldn’t recognise myself. Mood swings/ bad temper/ no motivation. Google PMDD
. Basically women have too much on their plate.
