I received a text message from her, "I miss you" and "Im sorry".
I ignored it for a week but I felt that I had to say something one last time.
My reply was,
"I'm sorry you feel that way, but wouldn't be here now if it wasn't for your decisions. Love is never enough. Wish you the best".
Was this a just reply? Should I have said something harsher? WHY WON'T SHE STOP TEXTING ME?! Every single time I'm chilling, out with friends, I get these kind of messages and it takes me back to square one!
Not knowing background of it, it’s impossible to figure out what made a girl text some guy who’s called it quits. It surely can’t be ‘a good heart’ considering quite disturbing misogynist views expressed by OP in some other topics.
Besides if you’re so irked by her texts, blocking feature is very old to avoid receiving unwanted texts so what keeps you from using it? Another way to stop her is by simply forwarding link of this topic to her so that she could herself see her real worth & the reality (her texts being discussed in public) instead of the pretentious behavior shown to keep her charmed & interested by a worthless fake being.
Wese, this is nothing if you really know her. I have seen cases where Pakistani guys claim to be in a serious relationship with a girl of their choice they happen to see somewhere. Track her down, gather all her bio & boast to their friends & strange people (who may or maynot know her) of having illicit relations with her in order to bad name her in jealousy (incase she gave the guy no attention) or to keep the suiters who may have any interest in away from her. All that while the girl walks around clueless about all the evil planning to destroy her reputation. I have seen such cases so many times, girls lives being destroyed by awaara guys. It’s surely a bad idea to believe a girl in Pakistan being so head over heels over a guy who doesn’t want her. Especially, if you’re in Pakistan, considering the utterly immoral starved male population that sticks around one girl like bees on a honey drop, that implication sounds so unreal.
You have already sent the response and you want nothing to do with her, so there is no point in wondering whether it was a just reply.
It’s not her messages that take you back to square one. It’s ** YOU** who takes yourself back to square one. It’s** YOU** who did not block her when you’ve been told to do so by several people. It’s YOU who is spending time and energy analyzing her intentions and her texts. If you really, truly didn’t care about her at all (not even a measly 1% )…you wouldn’t have created this thread. So what else is new? Nuthin’. Same old, same old vicious cycle.
Why iz every1 suggesting to block this that. Ishq ke dushman kaheen ke
Bechari is contacting you. Give her a proper response na. Kya aiwaeen ignore shignore block shlock. What if she is a really true by heart and want to be your lifey forever and ever. Go man. Do it. Thank holy later
Guys, damn… i came here for help. All i asked was if the reply would give her a jolt. She does this often, texts me and f**ks up my mood and yes I have blocked her # she has multiple #s that she uses.
i wanted to give her one last reply and wanted to know if that reply was something that?ll make her realize her mistake…