Well I attended a wedding a couple of days ago, and I caught two particular guys looking at me and watching me throughout the wedding, it just so happened whenever I looked in their direction they were looking at me and I would glance away, was it a sheer coincidence that whenever I looked up that I caught them looking at me or is it something else…last time I saw someone watching me like this and a waved it off as something of my imagination but two weeks later he asked me out. So when guys make repeated glances does it mean their interested?
well that or u r look funny. and plz before everyone starts bashing pakistani men or their culture, i'd like to say that most of the guyz regardless of where they r from, do stare at girls if they r interested. there are different kinds of look.. cud be the admiring look or pervert look or just trying to get the attention look.
Re: Repeated glances...
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*Originally posted by hoor bano: *
... So when guys make repeated glances does it mean their interested?
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in most cases yes :)
you know it is kind of interesting how that works.. like when you get the feeling someone behind you is watching you and you turn around and someone really is!?
And often if it's in a setting you go to often with the same people you even know who it will be before they make it obvious they are always checking you out!
aww I remember my first really big crush when I moved to Pakistan. I was at a private school with uniforms and all. They used to make us line up for assembly every morning and there was this one girl I really liked alot alot .. what attracted me to her was the fact that she was always so happy and full of life.
Anyhows her line was right next to mine and often I was totally unaware of the fact I was looking in her direction lost in my thoughts.. But what was really interesting the moment I would suddenly be aware of the fact I was looking right at the back of her head.. she would turn her head ever so slowly and glance back at me.. !?
Looking back it was soo cute..
It took me several months before I finally had the guts to speak to her ... and what was really cool was I had drawn a picture of her looking over her shoulder just as she always did and had given it to her that
first time..
Seriously guys need to learn not to get caught. If you get caught it sinks your chances to ask a girl out with a majority of pakistani women. Now if a guy is looking at you, it doesnt always mean he is interested. He is admiring the merchandise so to speak. Window shopping. If he is interested he will come up to you. If he aint he will check you out and leave it at that.
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*Originally posted by waqas72: *
Looking back it was soo cute..
It took me several months before I finally had the guts to speak to her ... and what was really cool was I had drawn a picture of her looking over her shoulder just as she always did and had given it to her that
first time..
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awwwwwwwwww that is adorable
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*Originally posted by CM: *
Now if a guy is looking at you, it doesnt always mean he is interested. He is admiring the merchandise so to speak. Window shopping. If he is interested he will come up to you. If he aint he will check you out and leave it at that.
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Exactumundo.
yeah I agree just cause you're getting glances does not mean they are for sure interested... though in most cases if the guy is looking he is.. your looks is all it takes lol
But remember this too. We are all attracted to beauty regardless if it's found in a person, animal, nature whatever lol And every one likes to look at pretty stuff :)
Oks now the following is just my general observation I'm not picking on hoor bano or anybody else
What I find extremely unattractive and a major major turn off is if a girl that thinks just cause she's pretty that's all she has to do... is look pretty to get someone interested..
yeah my question is interested in what?
If that's all you've got that's all you're gonna get in return. You want someone with class you're gonna have to do alot more then show some ..lol ;)
Your looks don't automatically make you 'worth' more and desirable to everyone.
But if that's how you're gonna go about it expect to keep making the wrong choices until you learn better.
Actually even your 'education', how much money you got, popularity etc ..hmm all the usual superficial stuff don't really make you anything better or worse then anybody else. At least I don't think so.
Back to the topic sometimes a glance is just a glance. :)
Now hoor bano, why do you want to know if a guy is checking you out translates to him asking you out? I see a connection here. You by any chance like one of the guys that was checking you out?
Hoor Bano give yourself 2 weeks and you will find out if they were interested in you or not.
I sometimes look at people and I will look at them over and over and over, just cause I'm sitting someplace and they are around and part of the scenary and I have a habit of looking all around, so in my case, its not that I like someone, its cause I'm bored usually.
I remember once my bhabi told me that I look at everyone and people are going to think I like them, I was surprised cause I didnt realize people might think that. hehe. Its not staring, its just glancing more than twice cause they happen to be around. Thats how I see it. Man, woman or child.
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*Originally posted by suroor_ca02: *
well that or u r look funny. and plz before everyone starts bashing pakistani men or their culture, i'd like to say that most of the guyz regardless of where they r from, do stare at girls if they r interested. there are different kinds of look.. cud be the admiring look or pervert look or just trying to get the attention look.
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Well if I looked funny my friends would have told me so, and besides there was nothing wrong with my appearance, it was a wedding I was dressed according to the event.
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Now hoor bano, why do you want to know if a guy is checking you out translates to him asking you out? I see a connection here. You by any chance like one of the guys that was checking you out?
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No, I don't like neither of the guys, I simply just didn't want to make an assumption that they were checking me out, I thought it could've been a sheer coincidence but when I assumed that before the guy actually came up and asked me out, I was just wondering what this body language translates into.
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*Originally posted by Munni: *
I sometimes look at people and I will look at them over and over and over, just cause I'm sitting someplace and they are around and part of the scenary and I have a habit of looking all around, so in my case, its not that I like someone, its cause I'm bored usually.
I remember once my bhabi told me that I look at everyone and people are going to think I like them, I was surprised cause I didnt realize people might think that. hehe. Its not staring, its just glancing more than twice cause they happen to be around. Thats how I see it. Man, woman or child.
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Repeated glances over the course of three days, I saw them on the mayoun, the mehindi night, and wedding party and the same behavior...
I don’t blame them, I heard Hoor’s were good looking…
haha,funny thing.
I thought this was SP's thread.
Re: Repeated glances…
Well I think their checking you out, I am always hesitant in making assumptions myself.
Guys can make everything so obvious eh? The fact that some girls don’t respond to their “window shopping” can make them all the more desirable because its hard to get their attention, maybe thats why they kept a eye on you all three days maybe they wanted you to give them a green flag before they approached you, they didn’t want to be rejected.
Your talking about guys its just as obvious when rishta aunties are checking you out asking the people around you what college you go to watching the way you walk, who you talk to, who’s daughter you are. Pweh!!!