Re: Rendezvous
OH MY GOD!!! What is your friend doing??? She already wasted three precious years of her life waiting for this good for nothing waste of space. I am sorry I refuse to acknowledge such species as MEN!
Tell her to get a divorce and start her life!!! She should get a khula if he refuses to divorce her but unfortunately, she needs consent for a Khula too (I don't understand my religion sometimes!). However, if he refuses to consent to a Khula, she can persuade him to enter into an agreement of Khul’ (a release for payment from the wife). So she can pay him some amount and get his consent to agree to the Khula.
She really needs to get out of this marriage and start living! Seriously, the best thing you can do for her right now is support her so she can become strong and then encourage her to initate the Khula proceedings.