Re: Relocation Advice
*I have little personal experience with informative interviews with HR as the go between, it has always worked best with direct contact with the person.
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I am not entirely certain of the value of informational interview either. I was recruited for my present firm so things were so much easier :)
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if you know already u are moving, slowly start sending things home, UPS ground for example.
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I should. I consider my books to me my prized possessions so I am going to send a few at a time.
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if u dont mind me asking where are you currentlya nd where are you moving .. city wise. if you are not too far it may work best if you just drive the car to your folks and then sell it there. u can even pack it with most of yoru stuff. or if you ship the car over u can fill it up, send teh car by freight and then just fly home.
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I have sent you a PM. I would rather not say on a public forum. I would like to drive down with my stuff but unfortunately the timing isn't right. I have found a buyer willing to pay a good price. Besides, my car needs are not going to be so urgent in the new city. I do plan on buying but not out of necessity.
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I am getting the sense that youa re early in your career and probably have a basic car, correct me if I am wrong. If that is the case put it on craigs list and especially post it on bulletn boards at a nearby college or grocery stores near teh college.
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I am fairly early in my career but do not have a basic car. Its a fairly expensive German luxury car, so getting the right price was important.
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moving is tough, it was very hard for me to leave the small town where my undergrad uni was.**
I agree. I seem to be going through nostalgia even before I have left. Life is good here, but the opportunities are rather limited. What makes it difficult is the "don't rock the boat" syndrome where I would be giving up life here: Good coworkers, decent Muslim community, comfortable at work, and used to the neighborhood so I question whether it will pan out to be a good choice.
On the other side, being close to my parents is important, hopefully more challenging opportunities in the new city and a fresh start also sounds really appealing.
Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it!