So what do you people think is the most important thing to a relationship?
I think two things that must be present for a good relationship are trust and good communication.
So what do other guppies feel about the issue? (looks forward to the two or three responses )
Btw, MQ, I trust you will be one of the few females who will posting in the thread–whether I understand your post or not is another point.
Definetly trust and communication. And never ever taking them for granted.
When you know a person for a long time and love them for a long time, its sometimes easy to take them for granted without even knowing it, and that can hurt their feelings. So be careful about that, always treat them like you did when your love was young, give them respect and be playful and be very careful with their feelings and emotions.
For all relationships, it's really important to approach them with the idea that the other person has the best of intentions. Misunderstandings are inevitable however good your communication is, but if you are convinced that the other person is not trying to get at you things are simpler and easier.
truthfulness, trust, faith, understanding are very important. if you can't be truthful and you are unable to share your problems with the other person, that is a very rocky relationship then.
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*Originally posted by ghuLail: *
truthfulness, faith, trust,communication, what bukwas.
think a chor sipahi relationship requires any of this?
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;) maybe. if the chor is a super chor and uses his brains and is a multimillionaire
chor and a multimillionaire, and truthful and faithful to sipahi.
plz dont talk this chinee bharee mirchee stuff with me. white-collar crime aint the only form of crime in the world.
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*Originally posted by Maniac: *
Definetly trust and communication. And never ever taking them for granted.
When you know a person for a long time and love them for a long time, its sometimes easy to take them for granted without even knowing it, and that can hurt their feelings. So be careful about that, always treat them like you did when your love was young, give them respect and be playful and be very careful with their feelings and emotions.
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Maniac…Do you always write irrelevant material underneath other people’s posts, or is it only my posts that you find so tempting? Just kidding; good point…never take anything or anyone for granted.
S-K-N…I was referring to any close relationships.
4-da-stars…thank you; I know I am a genius.
Shirin…having a positive approach to life is good.
Rani…I respect you from the bottom of my heart; I just don’t trust you.
Nilu…thank you.
gulail…
Khumar…couldn’t agree more.
Furqan…stop trying to change the heading of my thread; it’s perfect the way it is.
RT Wolf…definitely very very important. Rich people usually can have whatever relationship that they desire. Try it. And all those people who are not rich, please feel free to feel sorrow for yourself.
LK…you posting in my thread is a surprise as ever as I don’t know and don’t understand you very well; anyways, thank you for posting.
heart beat…yes, couldn’t agree with you more. Every relationship must use compromise at some point…or so I think.