Relationship with kids

[kakaballi]

Re: Relationship with kids

The following apparatus, if aerodynamically streamlined, has been found to be very effective in building a healthy relationship with kids:

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[Reha]

Re: Relationship with kids

@Chicken_Biryani

you know I agree with most of what you guys say. What scares the freak out of me though, is what I see around in real life. Some of my really good friends are friendly and open with their kids , them being mostly teenagers, now , I realize that its that age that can cause issues but still I see them , friends , struggling to get some control over their kid’s lives.

I feel if communication was the key element then they wouldnt have struggled coz like some of you said, they are close to their kids like friends, they try to teach them through letting them make their choices rather then forcing them into believing a certain thing. But a point has now come that I still see them getting upset with kids when they hide some stuff away :no:

I want to know what is the missing factor here . And how the relationship should be with the kids when they are 5-8 years of age and how this relationship should evolve as the kid grows ..

I do think communication is the key though but not in the sense that I guess is normally being talked about.

So far, I like aahmed’s approach a lot. Because it means whether the truth is good to hear or not - it should be said and its okay to be said. It gives kids the idea that no matter what it is…they can talk about it with their parents. That’s what I’d want…my kids to be excellent communicators with their parents.

[Royal_Gala]

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@Moodie_Foodie

Gala… Farishtay were constantly telling my mother my bad deeds. Ufff!!!

Oh how could I forget that one…I was told they were writing everything down in their ‘register’ …Opps don’t wanna offend anyone here…My bad people!!

[Moodie_Foodie]

Re: Relationship with kids

@kakaballi

The following apparatus, if aerodynamically streamlined, has been found to be very effective in building a healthy relationship with kids:

Old friend, you look so different when you aren’t coming at my head in your full force spinning mode.

[Krypton]

Re: Relationship with kids

Ah, lying to your kids, desi parenting strategy since the beginning of desi time.

We have opted not to lie to our child, we think that telling her the truth will help her trust us in the future, we don't lie to her about anything, we find it a poor strategy.

wanna know what's a lie? santa Claus and the tooth fairy. and all that bull****.

so desi it is

[IndiGo_Rain]

Re: Relationship with kids

^LOL. Only Desi parents don't care for Santy Claus and the Tooth Fairy. The moms may threaten their kids with the jinn baba or abu's wrath. And both of these entities exist. So, we're not such huge liars after all.

[Sara516]

Re: Relationship with kids

well, don’t send them to school because that will be a disaster.

:halo: