What do you think are bigger factors that hurt or kill relationships .
and , what are some of the minor mistakes that can build up to become bigger issues eventually ?
Re: Relationship mistakes
Taking your partner for granted would be the biggest mistake. People should realize that relationship is work and we need to work on it every day. We need to show appreciation daily.
Re: Relationship mistakes
This is a big question but one thing that’s important to me is respect.
If you lose respect for someone it’s pretty hard to get back. You respect people you value and vice versa.
That respect can be lost in many ways (ie. cheating, lying, low self-esteem, bad character, conduct, mannerism etc).
You want to spend the rest of your life with someone who you take pride in and for me it’s hard to love someone that I don’t respect first.
Re: Relationship mistakes
I cannot tolerate liars or exaggeration
Re: Relationship mistakes
disrespect
telling lies
use him/her for a purpose
again disrespect
Re: Relationship mistakes
Lack of communication is one of the biggest factors in my opinion.
Re: Relationship mistakes
Partners taking advantage of each other
Partners belittling each other
Re: Relationship mistakes
unthankfulness and greedyness
Re: Relationship mistakes
I would sum up like this 
غلط فہمی نے باتوں کو بڑھا ڈالا یونہی، ورنہ
کہا کچھ تھا، وہ کچھ سمجھا، مجھے کچھ اور کہنا تھا
Ghalat-fehmi nay batoon ko barha dala younhi, warna
kaha kuch tha, woh kuch samjha, mujhay kush aur kehna tha