Not too long ago, There was a reverent and respectful relationship between parents, teachers and students. But this relationship has been losing its respect and pious status with the passage of time.
This is what my mother says.
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I wonder, why it is? Has our generation forgotten our moral values and traditions. Is our generation more intelligent , educated than our older people or are we unaware clarity of these relationships?
But sometimes I feel both of them are journeying in different direction.
Some times few parents and teachers do not fullfilled the expectations of the student or kids or you can also say our generation also failed to fulfilled the expectations of our parents and teachers. But its doesn’t mean students and kids don’t respect their parents and teachers.
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Exceptations are really high in all the prospective parents. and When exceptations are not fullfilled by their beloved kids, its adds to agony.
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Its a general concept , now a days younger and older people do not admire and understand each other because of the generation gap.
If the children do not carry out a wrong or right order then they officially lose their place in the hearts of their elders.
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Is that true? In old ages, was there no mutual understanding between parents teachers and kids.
They hesitated to describes their inner feelings to their elders.But today, most parents and teachers have friendly easy ways with their children. But they didnt understand each other.
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I respect my parents, Aunties, uncles and teachers as well but not all of them.
I remember when i was in forth class. One of my teacher slapped my face only beacuse I had drawn curved line on my note book. And after two days i was not be able going to school because of inflammation on my checks. And i didn’t say a single word against my teacher to my mom because I knew I would have to study in her class. Later on,I come to know she had a personal grudge against our family. How can I respect such a type of teacher?
I know nobody is equall . as far I know islamic education also against this type of attitude.
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I dont know, what should we do to win the hearts of our parents,though we are fullfulling all our obligations, but can’t fullfilling their all expectations?