in short..(and in my opinion) ..age factor doesn’t matter in relationships..
even the guy can be younger than the girl and the other way around. as they
say “love is blind”
Originally posted by FlameZz:
OK lets take in notice few facts..
it is known that the average life of men is less then women. average life of men is about 60 years approx. and women is 70
so it the girl is 23 and guy is 33, at the age of 60 if the man dies, he leaves behind a widow of age 50. who still have 20 more years to live by, and at that age only there would be children to support , marriage is just exceptiopnal case. ( presumptions made )
secondly the sex factor in men , gradually weakens after 50 ( im not sure ), then the women of 40 years can also be considered as young , with still lots of desires etc.. how do you cop with that ???
coming to think of this i get the pic that one is looking for a job in a company of his choice
..i think that in such relationships
these things are immaterial
quote:
Originally posted by FlameZz:
secondly the sex factor in men , gradually weakens after 50 ( im not sure ), then the women of 40 years can also be considered as young , with still lots of desires etc.. how do you cop with that ???
i think that a “relationship” is not all about having sex. u already mentioned that the sex drive for both the partners
is reduced anywazz as they reach 50 or 40 or…
by the way assuming that its a teenager, 17-20(as said in the first post), than more likely he/she will loose interest in his/her older partner, when he/reaches a more mature age...as 17-20 is quite a young age to make life long decisions based on some fictional feeling..
but i guess diffrence more than 10 years , might bring up some complexities later..
but i might be wrong..
FlameZz
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