This exactly. We do not do long, drawn out mangnis or nikkah without rukhsati in my family. Ghar ke barray humesha kehtay hain ke jitni lambi mangni, utnay hi lambay jhagray.
Obviously, I had a love marriage, by choice, but as soon as both families met and approved the match, we got married…from baat pakki to marriage was 4 months.