Re: Rejection
I dispise it, I think it’s the worst kind of joke that parents can play to their children. Instead of letting them fall in love with the person whom their comfortable with they lay these rules and regulations ahead of them. Stating bogus facts like “Don’t look at the girl, but her family”. Like dafuq man I’m gonna marry her family. But usually that’s how Shaadis are looked at in our culture. It’s a way for families to connect. My answer to that is I dont know have the family members add each other on Facebook. Don’t ruin people’s lives. People marry without know intimate details about one another. This is a huge gamble, if you dont know what kind of person you’re going to be spending the rest of your life, you might as well spend all your money play poker. Because the life you have is too short to be able to figure people out and try to reach a ground where you both agree upon. Some married couples are happy, sure you found the right person. You got lucky, but there are some people who don’t. They get stuck with the worst kind of people imaginable. People who are compatible with each other one bit. But they force themselves to live with each other. That is what’s scary, such a sad life.