Thank you everyone for your help. hE did get in touch after a month of silence to tell me he was leaving the country for good. I will not further discuss anything about it here but I just wanted everyone to know I appreciated thier support and thoughts.
Please pray for me as Im going through a very stressful time because I have some crucial exams at university in the coming weeks and im not being able to concentrate on my studies. I just want to crawl in a corner and bawl my eyes out.