As cruel as it sounds, I have rejected almost all guys because of the way they step up to me. I am not a haseen-jal-pari kind of girl, but I am attractive --I know because I attract (NOT INVITE). I don’t act like a haughty, but it happens all the time that some guy comes up to me, starts talking by means of introducing and flirting, becomes curious, asks for my number, Gets REJECTED, LEAVES!!! …It always happens…!!
I came across the thread “Step up to a girl..” !!! BAD IDEA!!!..DON’T…!! My strategy would be what a 13 year old would tell you --and that is to BE SMART and DON’T GO UP TO HER ACTING LIKE YOU REALLY REALLY ARE INTERESTED.
OK TALK TO YA LATER..HAVE A CLASS IN FEW MINUTES..!!!
I AM NOT FINISHED ..SO DO COME BACK…!!
___________________________________________________________ALRIGHTT!! TIME OUT…
ALL of you are getting me wrong..!!!
I don’t mean guys WHO really like you with the bottom of their heart? Do you get my point. What I meant was JUST A RAMDOM GUY who has just seen you and liked the way you are. Talk about months – Don’t even go there; that’s far from what I am talking about. OK let me finish my story now.
This past week, total of four guys asked me for my phone number. Do I look that OPEN or Inviting? I think not! They are not, in any way, related to each other. Two of them I met at work. They simply came up to me and asked me. The other two I met at university. They came up to me in a very professional manner --of course saperately. They talked to me for a while. I see them often on campus when I am in the library. They disturb me a lot but they try not to, but they do so anyways. After meeting me twice, one guy actually gave me his number, the other one of course asked for mine. HE told me to call him up. OKAY! so that was not so bad. To an extent, this whole issue upsets me. I don’t want to turn them down, but I can’t just go ahead and do as they speak. Not to mention the two I met at work, one of them actually made up a story that he has seen me at school --which couldn’t be. last one was just another guy; he approached me, that sort of redundant thing. Let me clear this up again. THIS IS JUST THE PAST WEEK, SEVEN DAYS.
I really don’t wish to be asked, but O WELL. I don’t look like a slut or TOO AVAILABLE. I was not going to tell you this story but your missunderstanding has to Go. I’ve never had guys friends because of the fact that ,I know, some thing like this eventually happens. However, I don’t mind having guys friends if this is not the case. If the friendship seems to fishy --Buh-BYE. Friendship should be pure. Is there anything I am doing wrong??
…i mean bolti hein par larke bolein to zyada acha lagta hai…
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