so if u take the silent route that means you ought to cut every connection with the family. What if they are your relatives and you keep bumping into them at every nook n corner, so how do u respond, give them a blank stare and walk away.
Yes being rejected hurts, but i guess there is no ther way of putting it then being honest.
Guys side ususally assess the gal onthe basis of her physical attributes, therefore they most often opt for the silent route because they themselves feel shallow in confronting the fact that they rejected the gal coz she was dark/fat/short etc.
However a gals parents always look at the boys family background, educational qualification, characteristics , finacial stability. Physical looks are secondary, so they usually dont have a problem in speaking there mind out. But sicne we live in a male dominated society, the guys side often gets offended from the gals rejection.
personality/compatibitly are things which many a times the guys parents dont look into, they might come in for a trolley operation, see the gal and pass a judgement. like u have the preliminaries for any beauty pagent, beauty comes first…
Physical attraction needs to be considered, but stop looking out for a monica bellucci unless you are a tom cruise…
Yes it was shallow of me to reject someone on the basis of his height but i just wrote that to garner peoples view on what they thought when a guyz was rejected onthe basis of his physical attribute.
Btw we were from two different worlds, the compatibilty factor was nearly zilch.
But I must admit I am weak as a human, they are certain things i am not willing to compromise on, and short men are a total put off for me. But I would surely over look that factor provided he is a perfect partner in all other ways.
yeah i know it happens a lot in our society.. but everything should b given equal improtance from an individuals looks to his/her personality. Solely looks should never b the deciding factor.
