Re: Regrets..
I'm not happy with who I am, I'm not happy with what I've become because of what I did and what I could have done. I just don't know how to deal with it.I need to get my confidence and faith back and start believing that better things are in store for me.But with everything's that happened and the sorry state of affairs that I call my life I just can't bring myself to believe that anything good can ever happen to me again
I know I'm just ranting and that only time can heal things. So I really appreciate all of you taking the time to listen and address this loser.
mosinaf
I understand what you are saying, believe me I have dealt with hardships in my life and bad decisions/bad judgements teh impact of which i could only fathom years later. What I will say is going to sound rather simplistic but when all is said and done thats what it boils down to. Take it one step at a time, small victories. Make sure that the lessons learnt teh hard way are practiced and in future you do what is right.
Going back and fixing things may not be worth it, or maytbe, but dont let fixing the past take your eye of the future and what you need to be doing.
time is a great healer my man, great healer, I can speak from personal experience that I would not wish on my worst enemy.
Now, the first step is being in the right frame of mind, and by all means if you need to speak with a counselor, do it, it can do wonders. Someone i know is going thru a nasty divorce and it has helped him tremendously.