what should be done if u have done some mistakes in the past life and u have some sort of regrets??? …how to get over with the regrets in life as they create depression…share ur stories and how u got over with it …
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yo neha darlin lifes 2 short 2 have regrets innit kill da thing that kills u innit
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ummmm but wat should be done to avoid it????esp wen u know that the decision u made was rong and ur whole life depends on it???how to get over with it??
hahaha..Monk thats funny 
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***There are no regrets in life only experiences !
Everyone makes mistakes , the difference is some learn from them and move on and others keep making the same mistake again n again !
If something went wrong , a person either shrouds themselves in its negativity and lets it become a hindrance to self growth OR has the choice to make what is in their power to succeed in other spheres of life to make up for it !
Depression is a normal human emotion , its allowing it to take over your life that it becomes a disease. ***
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it ain’t funny…if u ask other’s regrets then u should pave the way by telling urs…that wud be courteous…
so, go ahead**
** it ain't funny...if u ask other's regrets then u should pave the way by telling urs...that wud be courteous...:) so, go ahead**
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i dun have any regrets..but i saw may people who do have..and i saw their lives getting worse just bcoz of that ..so thats y i wanted to discuss this thing that how to get over with it :)**
***There are no regrets in life only experiences !
Everyone makes mistakes , the difference is some learn from them and move on and others keep making the same mistake again n again !
If something went wrong , a person either shrouds themselves in its negativity and lets it become a hindrance to self growth OR has the choice to make what is in their power to succeed in other spheres of life to make up for it !
Depression is a normal human emotion , its allowing it to take over your life that it becomes a disease. ***
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i agree to most part but what if u can't just walk away...u have to deal with it day in and day out and no end in sight...how can u make other sphere of life a success while u are faced with the situation every moment of ur life...i'm sayiong this from my experience!**
***There are no regrets in life only experiences !
Everyone makes mistakes , the difference is some learn from them and move on and others keep making the same mistake again n again !
If something went wrong , a person either shrouds themselves in its negativity and lets it become a hindrance to self growth OR has the choice to make what is in their power to succeed in other spheres of life to make up for it !
Depression is a normal human emotion , its allowing it to take over your life that it becomes a disease. ***
nice ..
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i dun have any regrets..but i saw may people who do have..and i saw their lives getting worse just bcoz of that ..so thats y i wanted to discuss this thing that how to get over with it :)**
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u may be telling the truth but its unbelievable that one doesn't have regrets...the severity may be different but i'm sure every1 has one.**
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** i agree to most part but what if u can't just walk away...u have to deal with it day in and day out and no end in sight...how can u make other sphere of life a success while u are faced with the situation every moment of ur life...i'm sayiong this from my experience!**
yeah thats true....wen u have to face that thing everyday then how can u move on with ur life??and itz not practical not to think over it coz thoughts do come again n again...**
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I regret opening and reading the threads started by chachu ke chapal :(
** i agree to most part but what if u can't just walk away...u have to deal with it day in and day out and no end in sight...how can u make other sphere of life a success while u are faced with the situation every moment of ur life...i'm sayiong this from my experience!**
I think when there is something that significantly affects your life , its always going to be with you and you will always be reminded of it one way or another !
We all have our share of "experiences/regrets" that we carry ! Its all about learning to "Detach" yourself from that experience by setting yourself goals to achieve .
Nothing is Impossible !***
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btw for those who have any sort of regrets in life,there is a SERENITY PRAYER that is told by the psychologists that can help them get over with it.....it helps you get over ur depression and u feel relaxed..
it goes like :
"God grant me the SERENITY to accept the things i cannot change, COURAGE to change the things i can, and WISDOM to know the difference"...
try this..m sure it works :)
I think when there is something that significantly affects your life , its always going to be with you and you will always be reminded of it one way or another !
We all have our share of "experiences/regrets" that we carry ! Its all about learning to "Detach" yourself from that experience by setting yourself goals to achieve .
Nothing is Impossible !***
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i know and i've DONE it, alHamdolillah...but somethings are there in life which is right at your face...right there taunting u...and...u can't do nothing...so difficult...isn't it?**
btw for those who have any sort of regrets in life,there is a SERENITY PRAYER that is told by the psychologists that can help them get over with it.....it helps you get over ur depression and u feel relaxed.. it goes like :
"God grant me the SERENITY to accept the things i cannot change, COURAGE to change the things i can, and WISDOM to know the difference"...
try this..m sure it works :)
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i've a better one right from Qur'aan...2 of them:
wasta'iino bis-sabi was-salaat = find peace thru prayer and patience
inna-Allaha ma'as-saabireen = Allah is with those who are steadfast**
** i've a better one right from Qur'aan...2 of them:
wasta'iino bis-sabi was-salaat = find peace thru prayer and patience
inna-Allaha ma'as-saabireen = Allah is with those who are steadfast**
surelyyy...these are the best ones
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and yes u have to believe that watever happens it happens because Allah wanted it to happen,,,without His will it wouldn't have been possible and He will give u the courage to have patience and to get over it...as it is said in Quran.."Allah kisi ko us ki bardasht se barh ker takleef nahi deta"