Re: Regret?
well that was my point actually. I didnt say he has money problems and he wants to feed off his wife’s money. What it seemed to me is more of an ego issue to him that how come a wife is not acknowledging the ehsan of her husband and is so independent in her actions and expression now. I think wives should be considered an individual having their own identity and entity too. Maybe some men just fail to acknowledge and realise that. However great and a well wisher of him be that he arranged visa for her, brought him abroad, managed to have her learn driving and a good job that she is on, right now, but the marital relation is really not about doing ehsan and counting it and wanting a reward and pay back. Im sorry at such a behavior it be a wife or a husband. In the same way if a wife does something or anything good and nice to her husband, they both are actually fulfilling their duties, not doing ehsan on each other. this is how we build our family life, brick after brick of little and big nice goings and gestures. Should the marital relation be such vulnerable as to have disputes over such materialistic issues of money and job and how to spend the money.
OP, Im sorry if I interpreted the situation wrong and said anything that was harsh. Maybe this is because we have only one aspect of the situation. I dont know what your relation is, to the couple, you are in a better situation to interpret and decide which party is fair or unfair. No offense buddy.