Regret Talking about the Ex?

[Sehrysh]

Re: Regret Talking about the Ex?

@TLK

A rule in corporate life that I learnt is the when you are giving interviews, never ever bad mouth your previous employer. That only slim down your chances of securing this job. Employers just do not like the applicants who vent about their ex-employers.

I personally think that its a very good rule to apply in real life also.

(o btw I learnt that rule not as an interviewee but as an interviewer)

My 2 cents.

I agree with you. No one wants to hear about negativity about someone else - it just makes you sound petty and vindictive. I think the key is not to volunteer information and not to malign someone else. But, will I lie to hide someone’s flaws, then no - I won’t do that.

@Muzna

some great advice here…

there are many that feel they can share stuff with their “close” friends…and to some degree I will agree with that…but honestly the best advice per my experience is to keep things to yourself.

I’ll be honest, my closest friends get the entire rundown of the situation - but it’s because they’re my friends and I need them to vent to. It’s great some people can keep it all inside, but for me closure and the ability to move on to indifference comes from talking it out with someone - koi’ee to pursanay haal hona chahiyay.