So, when you start seeing red flags in a relationship, do you keep giving it a chance or do you pack up and do a 180 and a speedy gonzalez running for the border?
At what point, do you say its enough and that things are probably not going to work out, even if it means…you may be alone again and maybe for life.
Re: Red flags
question is too vague PCG, come on! you can do better then that.
We are talking about ppl here. There could be million and half differnt situations. We cant just make some simple rules to go through a relationship.
Then again there are certain things you just can't compromise on.
Re: Red flags
I believe on trying hard till the angry/snobbish lad inside me comes out and yells ' I cant take it any more '...
when he says it ...Than the salad days of that relationships are over and i have no choice left other than doing a 180 as it much better than a blind leading a blind , ya know :)
Re: Red flags
If you are MARRIED - then 180 or 360 will be hard to go about
If you are single - you can ALWAYS take whatever degree your heart pleases.
So, when you start seeing red flags in a relationship, do you keep giving it a chance or do you pack up and do a 180 and a speedy gonzalez running for the border?
At what point, do you say its enough and that things are probably not going to work out, even if it means...you may be alone again and maybe for life.
Depends on the red flag, no?
So, when you start seeing red flags in a relationship, do you keep giving it a chance or do you pack up and do a 180 and a speedy gonzalez running for the border?
At what point, do you say its enough and that things are probably not going to work out, even if it means...you may be alone again and maybe for life.
Its better to be alone and happy then get knowingly into a relationship thats already heading towards disaster.
Better to get out of it while you still got the chance........If your seeing red flags you have to follow your gut instinct.....it never fails you !
*** Its when you start finding yourself"rationalizing " those warning signs is when you've really crossed that fine line. That is when you either Get out as fast as you can or get sucked into a mess you'll live to regret !***
Re: Red flags
Nobody is perfect.....we all have irksome traits/habits within us. I guess it would depend upon what those red flags are and also if these red flags are manifesting themselves in the relationship FREQUENTLY to the point that they are taking a heavy emotional/psychological TOLL upon the victim...............then it's time to move on.
Also, if you've addressed the red flags in the relationship a few times and see no improvement in the individual......then move on.
Re: Red flags
Depends on how much u like the person I suppose, if ur really in love with them u might need hundreds of red flags before u walk away, some ppl by nature don't/can't see the bad in a person no matter how badly they get treated :(
Re: Red flags
If its marriage, try harder.
If its a relationship...see where its going and then break if it seems meaningless for even one person.