Re: Recently got engaged but confused
Firstly, you DO have a choice. But…for whatever reason, you feel that the BEST CHOICE for you is to go through this marriage despite not being happy…then that your decision. But please understand and accept that you are CHOOSING to go through with this engagement. No one is holding a gun to your head and especially since you’re in the U.S., I’m assuming that you will not be in physical danger if you end this. Yes, people will be upset and there will be crying/yelling etc…but after a few months…years…everyone will get over it.
But this is not what you WANT to hear. To focus on what you actually asked…why are you texting him daily? He’s not texting you daily right? Did he ever ask you to text him daily? What made you come to the conclusion that he will be upset/mad/sad if you text him once a week or once every 2-3 weeks?
i cme to the conclusion because dont people get used to it if they hear from the other person everyday? r u saying if i dont txt daily nothing will happen? maybe you’re right. can you give me more advice on this point?