Why can’t women go on happily without being reassured every now and again regarding every matter?
Is it a weakness, a virtue, a sweet symbol of vulnerability… a very girl thing.
Or do men feel that need to be reassured in one way or the other in a relationship, I mean?
Am I wrong in assuming that this is just a venus thing that does not exist on Mars because men who feel insecure easily get a bad name, but women… well they need the reassurances.
Please respond…!
Needing reassurance is not a sex thing, its just the type of person you are. Men need reassurance all the time, only they're just too macho to actually express such a desire. They usually like getting it from their fathers or maybe their bosses. If you have a male subordinate try giving him reassurance and see how the productivity improves.
Women are just open about stuff that deals with feelings, so you see them seeking the R word a lot more.
What can I reassure you about?
Your strengths? My guess is you know them better than me...
i think ure limiting it to women a bit too much.. men also liek to be reassured.. an i think everyone out there is lookin for reassurance cuz its the comfort element that comes with the concept of reassurance... kinda liek a invisible guiding head.. even those who r confident reassure themselves that they r right in their decesion...
ppl r either askin for reassurance from others or simply themselves..
hell out drill Sarge needed that too...we always told em we can go 3 milez without prob but he needed a reassurance DAILY...:(..
his reassurances were VERY reassuring though...
Someone needs a hug...
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*Originally posted by Lajawab: *
What can I reassure you about?
Your strengths? My guess is you know them better than me...
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Oh dear....
Did I sound so pathetic... or do you think that i look anything like my guppie face.
shall I change it.
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*Originally posted by RT Wolf: *
Someone needs a hug...
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It was ageneral discussion... it is not me..... It is not catharsis.
I am not in favour of women seeking reassurances all the time.... it is pretty much vuilnerability that is a product of too much dependance and too many expectations.
so r u sayin men dont seek them??? ^^
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*Originally posted by super_ego: *
It was ageneral discussion... it is not me..... It is not catharsis.
I am not in favour of women seeking reassurances all the time.... it is pretty much vuilnerability that is a product of too much dependance and too many expectations.
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I think with this whole thread you're trying to get reassurance Super_Ego. U just want to be told its ok to keep being the discriminating, egotistical person that you appear.
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*Originally posted by TofiBaba: *
I think with this whole thread you're trying to get reassurance Super_Ego. U just want to be told its ok to keep being the discriminating, egotistical person that you appear.
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NOW NOW... Are you a tease or what...!!!
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*Originally posted by Deviliciousss: *
so r u sayin men dont seek them??? ^^
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Something tells me you are a man. No... men do seek reassurances.... but there is a line between seeking and needing.
People , even pets seek it. Women need it to keep going. Women who don't get them on a fairly regular basis get old too quickly.
Now ... the question is ... WHY???
And if you guys aren't familiar with female psyche.... I could teach you a thing or two.