Quick divorces might have some valid reasons and justifications as people can find some truth after marriage which can make them part ways.
I don't understand the reasons for divorces after spending so much good time with each other and having beautiful kids. I know a couple who was divorced after 22 years of marriage and having four sons. They had a very good marriage but the husband just started liking another woman and had decided to marry her, with his wife asking for divorce.
Quick divorces might not be as painful as divorces after a long and happy marriage. But still, divorce is a very painful experience but sometimes is the only way out of a troubled relationship (be it short or long term).
how exactly was it a long and happy marriage if the man started liking another woman?
I just don’t get that, if everything was hunky dory and total happy times with a guy for me, the intensity and passion wouldn’t die off, the scorpio in me wouldn’t let it happen. i guess for them they just didn’t know how good they had it or how bad others have it comparatively.
divorce should only happen in extreme cases, how come mr. man had the wandering eye and fell in love with another. how does that happen in happy valley is what i don’t understand!!??!!
obviously they were different in private compared to how they showed themselves to be in front of friends.
You are right. I thought being happy was synonymous with spending 22 years with each other although they had the option of divorce previously also. Thus this factor of outside woman became the reason for their divorce. If the husband was not happy with his wife, they had bad relationship and he was genuinely looking for other women, he could have found many in his 22 years of marriage and he could divorce his wife anytime in those 22 years.
What I think is when the husband got that another women in his life, his relationship with his wife might not be strong enough that particular time to keep him loyal to his wife and he just found himself attracted towards that woman. They might or might not necessarily be going through a tough and bad marriage. But at that particular time period, his relationship with that outside woman was stronger than his 22 year long relationship with his wife which made him choose that woman over his wife. Thus the husband wife relationship can become weak at any moment (there can be many factors leading to this) and divorces can happen even after happy marriages. Obviously, the extent of happiness can be hidden from the public. But still…
Its better to part ways than dragging an impossible relationship and ruining your life for good. (Happy?)
i didn't say they wrong or right......just wanted to know about the possible reasons...
a saving a marriage is worth a shot IMO........and i don't understand how people can so quickly decide that its to be ended without giving a serious try....obviously impotency,gay and stuff like that is understandable..........
and secondly.......why people hide such things of which they know that it will break a marriage?? why they get married in the first place??
i didn't say they wrong or right......just wanted to know about the possible reasons...
a saving a marriage is worth a shot IMO........and i don't understand how people can so quickly decide that its to be ended without giving a serious try....obviously impotency,gay and stuff like that is understandable..........
and secondly.......why people hide such things of which they know that it will break a marriage?? why they get married in the first place??
p r e s s u r e
qasmen and blackmailing of parents. How can such a marriage work which bases on blackmail and cheat. Nomi, you need to correct the society instead of coming up and asking such questions we cant help much even identifying.
why would an impotent person get married in the first place? or is it a case of mmm i bet my plumbing will work once im married?
a person be impotent or gay or already interested in someone else and therefore wouldnt even touch the bride and tell her straight away "mera dil kisi aor ke paas hai",
Or
the girl who wasnt virgin or who simply loved someone else and on the wedding night poured it out to her groom reaching the heights of (self delusional) honesty,
how to you expect all of it or any of it to end?
S e p e r a t i o n.
And the most ironical part being, the factors who play a potential part in making all such completely mismatched marriages by force or whatever, become so indifferent once the task of ruining two lives is complete. They would just sit back and enjoy themselves. No? Oh okay if they were really that sincere and caring why would they enfore and blackmail their child for the knot in the very first place when they being the parents knew their kid is not going to make it, or maybe they loved to gamble. I dont think the destruction of such marriages should be alleged to the couple. you cannot reap wheat when you sow rice.
divorce should only happen in extreme cases, how come mr. man had the wandering eye and fell in love with another. how does that happen in happy valley is what i don’t understand!!??!! 