Really Need Help

Re: Really Need Help

Ok, so a few things guys.

  1. I don't drive her anywhere anymore. I stopped doing that when she had a hissy fit over me confronting her about her bf.

  2. She isn't desi. She is Caucasian.

  3. Yeah I could get a heater for my room, but the living room would still be cold. It would still jack up the energy bill. Is the extra money worth it for my comfort. Turning the A/C off is worth it for my comfort.

A couple of suggestions from my mom:

  1. Play your TV shows and music loud and tell her you have a medical condition by which you have sudden urges to hear loud TV and music.

  2. Refuse to pay extra cost in electric bills. Before we were paying 100-120 per month for the electric bill and now the last bill was 150. So...I pay the usual 60 dollars, and tell her that any overage, she'll have to foot if she wants to continue upper the electric bill.

Some other points:

  1. I've been away for 2-3 months for exams and travel, and never once did I tell her to foot my side of the rent as I was not using the apartment for that time period. I think I've been fairly generous and NOT nitpicky about dividing everything halfway.

  2. To backstab her, I just don't do my dishes for days. Which I know drives her crazy.