why is it hard for guys to realize their mistake and say a simple word "sorry?..is it about their pride/ego or what?..it’s beyond my understanding seriously
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I say sorry
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Generalizing 
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^ Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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okay i didnt intend to generalize it , lets talk about those who find trouble saying sorry.
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well most f the time they dont think its their fault and even if it is their fault that partly its the other person's mistake too and they had something to do with the problem as well. So you sit down with them and talk and tell them yeah ok I shouldn't have said that maybe that was me pushing it a bit but you were way out of the line there and if it is anyone reasonable then they should apologize .. then again there are some very unreasonable people.
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because if they admit they are wrong it's a sign of failure.. IDK.. however I will tell you some men hate whinning more than anything.. so if you want a sorry out of your other half just start whinning and within few minutes you will get the biggest sorry ever!
okay i didnt intend to generalize it , lets talk about those who find trouble saying sorry.
Pride...ego.....they associate apologizing with weakness. They may think that saying "sorry" makes them look "guilty"...."wrong"....and "smaller"......and they can't bear to be any of those things. It's one of those traits (that can be present in both genders) that make the top of my pet peeves list. A turn off.
You learn through making mistakes...not through perfection. And if one doesn't even have the humility to admit...let alone recognize their mistakes.....then they're not gonna learn anything....they won't grow as a person/in character....and may even repeat the mistakes again.
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RV…when are they making you Life1 Mod? 
i love ur replies 
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I think its totally "ego" thing that stop people from accepting their fault and apologize.. And yes it can be on either side!!
And if I wanna attempt to be more specific, I've seen in Pakistan more females saying sorry while here its other way around..
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I admit my mistake whenever I am at fault. Moreover, I try not repeat it.
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I think most men who do bad things (ex. he has abused his wife or kids physically) accept it in their hearts that they did wrong but don't express it. And I believe one truly realizes their mistakes by accepting them in their hearts than merely saying "sorry". Ofcourse this does not mean that one should not bother saying "sorry" at all.
Yes you are right. Most of them just hate the feeling of being felt guilty in front of the one who thay have hurt and they associate feeling guilty with weakness.
In urdu it’s called “sharmindigi” 