Share your ideal husband or ideal wife please, and make sure that you have an honest expectations :)…
I think I can mold very easily. ALL I NEED IS LOVE LOVE LOVE :P… LOL… He needs to be very caring, educated, well-established, and loving. HE should be S meaning SHAREEF, SINCERE, SEXY, AND SWEET. I’d like us to pray five times a day so we don’t forget about afterlife. He should open the car door for me, pull out seat for me while we are dining, and don’t be scared to show affection in public. I want a friend more than a husband. I want him to take marriage as a fun ride where we are traveling a lot together. In return, I will do everything he wants… THE KEY SHOULD BE MAKING EACH OTHER HAPPY AND WILLINGNESS TO MAKE THE RELATION WORK.
Are my expectations realistic? It is your turn to share your ideal wife or ideal husband depending on your gender.
Realistic Expectations - Ideal Husband and Ideal Wife
No they are not unrealistic. I have realized this since iv met my husband alhumdullilah so have faith love & pray to Allah, nothing is unrealistic if He wills.
Re: Realistic Expectations - Ideal Husband and Ideal Wife
Yes your expectations are unrealistic. Bu well if you are in your late teens or even mid twenties, I guess most of your talk is innocence based and therefore the hawks on here shouldnt be really picking at you. Now, when you say your husband should be romantic, in common sense context it is as what we usually expect from the husbands i.e. being considerate and thoughtful about trivial things that are elemental to you or to any girl for that matter. Like the husband sending a couple of sms from work telling you he loves you, misses you. Him bringing gifts for you when he returns, little things like even flowers would do. Him remembering important dates i.e. your birthday, the anniversary, and stuff. Appreciation in front of others and privately too. Trust, care. I think this is all we usually expect when we want our husbands to be “romantic”. But dont forget people here have their own terminologies and well, its “fun”.
Great that you are easy on those who are mean to you. That tells how bigger you are as a person.
Now, that you wan your husband to be “romantic”. Well with the above definition of being romantic, you can find one only on Mars, even that is no sure :hinna: