real daughter vs dil

[Reha]

Re: real daughter vs dil

@missy1234

well it just seems unfair bc we want the world for our daughters – education, living arrangement, good family, good job, etc – but for the dil’s we expect them to ‘settle’ with what they get AND to be content and happy with it…even if its not what they would want for their own daughters. maybe its normal? but weird for sure

Yeah, I do want the world for my kids.

Which is why I won’t give them false hope. Yes, you need to respect your elders but don’t fool yourself into thinking ANYONE on this planet can do what your parents did for you. NO ONE can. So stop having those expectations from people.

Are your own parents there for you? If so, why do you need someone else’s? Be happy with what Allah swt has given you and just do your part…be good to your in-laws.