Ready to fall in love

I really feel like Im ready to fall in love and move on with my life…but too bad my prince is still missing :frowning:
Any advises how I find that one? How I know he is the one? Should I find him by myself or ask my family..?
Im confused. One problem is that I dont want to settle with a guy who isn’t “ideal” for me just because I want to find someone and get married. I want to fall in love and get married… Im just afraid I guess that no one ever will like me like that. Or can fall in love with me..
How did u met ur spouse? And how old were u?

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awwwwwwwwww so cute :hugz;

You just need to let go of your fears girl..........just let it go........and go out and nail your prince XOXOXOXO

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I guess "prince" will come to you at right time. Although there is nuthing rong asking your friends or family for good guy in your community.

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I know Im just thinking always that no one probably wants me......but true I should change my thinking and let go of my fears.

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no one is ideal. you will need to compromise on some qualities. if you are felling to settle with guy. i suggest to let your requirements know to your parents, and they will looking Ullu/Murgha/Bandar for you as you wish.

on the other hand, you can read ya lateefoo 100 times with drood before and after and make duwa for your prince charming(Ullu/Murgha/Bandar). if you want to speed up your rishta process, you can pray salat-e-tahjjud and ask Allah to find one for you.

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True. I just dont know how to say for example to my dad that Im "ready". We are close but we dont talk about things like that! I think that would be awkward.

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STA you are so 'mutaaqi' praying middle of the night i find it very beautiful.

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You are going to have to talk to someone riiight. How about talking to your mother about this??.

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i m not mutaaqi, but i want to be. your **Urdu **is good.

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jisko dekh kar dil dhak dhak karne ke ba’d phir se dhak-dhak karne lage, vohii samjho prince-charming hai :slight_smile: vaise, love N marriage don’t co-exist :smiley: one of the two just evaporates…whichever comes first! :cb:

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ummm now that’s some positive advice…:k:

NOOOTT!!

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Thats true. But I meant like someone who I know will understand me, and who Im able to understand and more importantly with whom I see the possibility to fall in love with. Who has same kinda future plans, whose personality matches mine etc.

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you cant understand anyone until you live together. you can find someone with most similar mind set but you will still unpredictable of his overall nature.

what is your criteria to fall in love?

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You will find someone who is destined to be in your life and when it is in your destiny to meet them...I believe Allah has made someone for everyone...

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lol, you sound like a sweet girl. You will find someone iA..haha but don't dwell on it too much. Focus on whatever you are doing and when the right person is destined to meet you, he will come along.

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When the time is right (which is different for other people) you'll find the one.

Forcing yourself to find someone is only going to lead to a high risk for incompatibility.

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youll find the right one. I know it may not seem like it but it will happen. Enjoy life. Finally, dont try and steer your life. Let your life steer you.

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google your prince

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True. I know Im naive and bit over romantic person( I blame romantic movies!:D) but I think I cant be with someone whose thinking I dont understand. And by that I mean like if I notice that he thinks about something "big" thing that way which I just dont understand for example about family, values, religion etc. Uff this is difficult to explain! I hope you get something out of my explanations...And I wont anyway get married before talking and meeting that person for months. And even if its an arranged marriage, I know that my family will be fine with the fact that I spend time with him before even saying "yes".

You mean what criteria is in that person with whom I see possibility to fall in love or? Sorry my English is not the best.

Im gonna answer how I understood that question, correct me if I understood wrongly :)

Well just someone who is Muslim(obviously), family orientated, fun and adventurous person with good sense of humor. Someone whose personality matches mine; not too serious and easy going. Look wise taller and max 7 years older and of course its plus if he is good looking in my eyes :) I could add bunch of adjectives (nice,caring, loving, respectful) on this list but I think most of those adjectives are so basic characters which are found from most of people.

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ROFL?