it is quite clear from accounts of people who had suffered infidelity by their so called caring spouses.
women in some and men, in most cases are known for being very much graduated into their infidelity status.
it begets them everything - intrigue, secret sense of excitement, perhaps pleasure, and in desparate situations, a dependency on the ‘new, fresh’ person.
infidelity also begets them, disloyal as a permanent label, distrustfulness, lack of sincereity and non-forgivenesss
the best thing to do in such cases is to let the person leave the person alone.
serious thoughts on infidelity?
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infidelity is just wrong!!
i mean u just hurt sooo many people by commiting adultery its unreal!
it's ok as long as no1 finds out...
nah im jokin.. its immoral
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shortdog...be serious lol..!! its definately WRONG!
Re: reactions in infidelity
there are always underlying reasons to a relationship if either partner ends up being infidle ... the signs start showing very early in a relationship if its cracking , thought they are so hard to notice and go by unnoticed ...
I personally feel , communication is the key to handle any such situation.. naturally one gets hurt , which is the very first reaction ..
the next thought is rejection .. you want to leave your partner for good and punish him/her ... thats where the confusion is .. how do you deal with the situation ..? do you just leave your home and start a new life or stick to the person apologizing and saying i will never do it again ...????
ofcourse if he/she in an idiot and doest accept his mistake then a tight slap is whats needed and walking away is the best solution.. but what DO you do in the above situation ?
leave your partner and walk away or give it time and try and sort out the underlying issues?
It is totally wrong it not only destroys the marriage between a husband and wife, but i think it has a adverse affect on children and the wider family. So i think that it is a complete betrayal of trust and without trust you have no marriage as there will always be doubts. As muslims i think we should consider that the punishment for infidelity in islam is death under sharia law.
As to the question above if i was hypothetically married and my partner cheated i would leave him, because i know as a person i would find it hard to forgive and for me trust will be an issue. There should be no excuses for infidelity it is completely wrong.
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leave the person bcoz i would do the same as it is the limit and if a person loses trust then he is nothing. if you give it a 2nd thought u will discover that one can never trust a person who has cheated at sum time of life so, leaving is the only solution inspite of being crying at this issue for the rest of your life.