The bride in this picture attended the aboe wedding in her own wedding dress and she looks fab. She is not out-shinning the bride at all.
in her own wedding thgh…it looks like she is sleeping.
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^ yeah it looks nice…plus it looks like they’re in pakistan and that type of thinking (“outshniing the bride”) doesn’t really exist there..
I like the other bride’s dress alot though. (what can i say..i love anything pink 
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the other bride is also not wearing red and gold though... she's in lighter colors. that creates the biggest difference.
but is that pink outfit really a shaadi dress? Looks more like a valima or something to me...if not, its definitely the first time I'm seeing churidaar on a shaadi.
Speaking of churidaar, have you ever seen a churidaar outfit with a kameez that isnt long but still looks good? I think it should always be knee length or longer, but I havent seen anything to prove the contrary...
Wearing my wedding lengha to brother's wedding
What are your thoughts please? I got married 5 years ago - is it ok to wear my lenngha to my brother's wedding or is it tacky? It is light pink (not colour the bride is wearing) and it's not really heavy so it could pass as a very nice lengha rather than a wedding one.
Also, would it be better to wear it to the Bharat or Walima?
Thanks
I think its fine as long as you dont put the duputta on your head or try to outdo the bride.
I think its fine as long as you dont put the duputta on your head or try to outdo the bride.
yup keep your jewelry minimal nothing too heavy and don't feel the need to put your hair in an updo and all should be fine.
I'd wear it at the baraat.. and keep the jewellery minimal..
i think it would be nice if you ask the dulhan
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^no way jose!
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You can wear it esp if your bhabi is Pakistan born and bred. As there people are happy if you wear your own wedding dres to the wedding. At my own wedding I asked some close friends to wear their wedding lehngas as it shows that the pesron is so close to you and happy that she is wearing a heavier dress than normal. Even my MIl was mad that I didn't wear my valima lehnga to her daughter's (SIL) wedding. However, if your bhabi is westeren bred than she might object as its a western custom of not wearing the same color as the bride and so forth.
Just don't wear your dupptta on your head, tikkas are ok.
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the general rule is to not wear hte same color. Otherwise, keep the hair simple (u can still do an updo if you want), just please please please do not wear hte duputa on ur head! if you do hijab, u can easily find a matching simple scarf and it will be nice. I hate when girls use the exucse of “hijab/pardah” to dress like a dulhan! 
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i was going to wear mine. but decided not to when i heard the bride was wearing the same color. its her day to be the best one in the room.
someone suggested to me that to wear your dulhan outfit on the valima....and maybe your valima outfit on the shaadi.
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^ sounds like a reasonable way of wearing both...
iA i want to wear my shaadi lehenga on my bro's engagement- it was champagne with mostly tone-on-tone kaam so, heavy but not in-your-face, and then my mehendi gharara on his mehendi, a new gharara for his shaadi, and a new sari for his valima. yay!
love your sig line, btw haha :)
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I got married a year ago, and wore mine to a friend's wedding recently. All her married cousins wore their wedding lehngas as well. Certainly do NOT put the dupatta over your head, if you wear a hijab, go for the lightest shade of hijab that matches with the lehnga. The choice of jewellery really depends on how heavy the dress is. I have seen girls going all out and wearing their bridal sets, so it's a matter of what you yourself are comfortable with. We don't pay so much for our dresses just to pack 'em away after the big day! =)
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I don't see anything at all wrong in wearing your bridal clothes. Just keep the hair and jewelry simple. Wear only earrings and skip the necklace, for example.
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i honestly dont get how ANYONE can steal the brides thunder on her wedding day, regardless of what they are wearing… she is sitting way up there on the stage, EVERYONE knows who the bride is.. she’s got the whole glow thing going on.. everyone and evevrything (hell even seating arrangement) is directed towards her… just dont get how a bride can feel like someone is tryin to outdo her on her wedding day…
i would wear it. especially cuz its pakistan. at my wedding, all my mumanis wore their bridal lehngas to my barat.. with their tikas and jhoomars ..i loved it.. no one had trouble knowing i was the bride.. nor did i feel like they were tryin to out do me…
tehse days 3 yr olds are walking around with tikkas at weddings… its the norm ..
i think the only thing u can leave out is wearing the dupatta from the head.. otehrwise.. go for it! even the tikka. where else are u gonna get the chance to use ure bridal clothing and jewellary? shopping at sabzi mandi?
even here in denmark ive been to weddings where girls have shown up wearing their bridal gear from head to toe, and there havent been any bad feelings or vibes.. i wonder if its a us and canadian bemaari 
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Yup. I like the idea of being able to wear my wedding outfit again but not if its the same color as the bride's. I would leave the dupatta off my head and MAYBE wear a tika (I adore tikas) and matching earrings. No necklace.
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I think it's a great idea.