ravish ?

in dealing with unfair and ignorant relatives, it seems, people have two options.

a) be even more ignorant and unfair in return constantly until a lot of damage and disgrace has taken place.

& b) while not cursing and wishing them bad, or hurting them in an avaricious manner, keeping quiet and totally cutting off with all relatives, not having to do anything with them all for an indefinite time period?

share your thoughts if you like, on the above and on the possibility of confronting them with all your patience.

best,
Dushwari

Re: ravish ?

What do you prefer

a) short and instant gratification

or

b) long-term but delayed gratification

Re: ravish ?

in what sense, Cheegum?

would you un commit to your scruples and own personal sense of wright and wrong, just like that, once there is family relatives' wrong expectations towards you?

in that frame of reference, there is no long term and delayed satisfaction. no?