In the 20th century, active feminism has done a lot good for women in Europe and North America. Eliminating (or minimizing) discrimination in most departments. But on the other hand it established some golden rules..
1. All men are perverts.
2. Anything a man can do, woman can do better.
Topfreedom ?
According to some source…
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top·free·dom (top’fre·dom) n. 1.The human condition, or quality of being topfree; without one’s shirt, blouse, bra, or other upper torso covering.
2. Liberty or choice to cover, or uncover one’s chest in public. 3. Exemption; immunity; freedom from arrest due to chest exposure.
Topfreedom: Granted to men in the United States in 1939. Still denied to women in the United States in 2002.
Topfree equality is a small but growing social movement in parts of North America. The goal of the movement is to give women the right to remove their clothing above the waist in public wherever men can do it (e.g. at a beach, swimming pool, or park).
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So according to 2nd rule if men can remove shirts in public, so can women do. And in doing so when men stare at them or laugh at them, it automatically proves the first rule that men are pervert.
Although these rules need no authentication. But I believe ladies can perform some tasks better than men. But some tasks they don’t need to do and they can always command men to do it for them. They don’t need to sacrifice the status of a lady by blindly following men.
For me in particular and men in general have absolutely no problem with this attitude. But this small minority of women needs to acquire some wisdom.
Interestingly, some women try to generalize the results of their isolated experiences. But men never do that (i.e. hate women in general after some bad experience with one)
In the old movies (not so old though) I see gentlemen used to bow their hat, and bend their head while greeting ladies. They would open the door of cart and carry the luggage for them.
I wonder why these gentlemen turned into perverts in short span of time (30,40 years). Is there some genetic modification in men or women have played some part in it ?
Code red you've obviously spent too much time on this forum reading male bashing threads.
Just remember hatred like love is an emotion :p using that logic ..in their own way even gupshups most ardent feminists are actually obsessed with us guys :)
Every desi female I have come across has a "sob story". Basically a story where a man has done them wrong and they are completely innocent. Based on this fact they hate men. Ironically these very same male bashers or haters when married say that their husbands are nothing like the people they used to hate.
Now every male knows that we check out girls all the time. We do talk about and look at disgusting stuff. Any male who states he has not seen porn in his life is lying. You get the idea. But to them their husbands are complete angels and never took part in any of these activities.
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*Originally posted by Sir Galahad: *
Every desi female I have come across has a "sob story". Basically a story where a man has done them wrong and they are completely innocent. Based on this fact they hate men. Ironically these very same male bashers or haters when married say that their husbands are nothing like the people they used to hate.
Now every male knows that we check out girls all the time. We do talk about and look at disgusting stuff. Any male who states he has not seen porn in his life is lying. You get the idea. But to them their husbands are complete angels and never took part in any of these activities.
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I did not waste time in reading these but the attitude seems far un-natural, and superimposed. It is quite un-healthy.
I think women are more sophisticated form of human. As they were made after men. Men being raw, can be utilized for different tasks.
Why women need to change the tyre of a car or paint a wall, repair electrical wiring, lift suit cases, when some men are around.
I think too much demand for equality have actually deprived ladies some luxuries, sadly some respect. That Loss of respect eventually implicate frustration and emotion of hate in some cases. (though number is still small).
Now it truly depends on what you mean by decent. If you want a man you can mold into whatever you want, you will bore very quickly. A scientific study done around 2 years ago should that women prefer the "bad boy" because there is excitement and a thrill when are with him. They choose not to date anybody who they think is boring or dull. The more wild/rough/dangerous, the more women want to date the individual.
There is always compromise in a relationship.I dont think women want to 'mold' men to their own liking.They simply want men to understand them.Unlike the typical mentality - not all women are into fashion and gossip , just like all men arent into just sports and TV.I think a lot of the times the two genders just dont understand each other.
