your relationship with your spouse or significant other. I mean do you guys fight a lot or have very good understanding. Was it always like this or have things changed??? If things have changed how have they changed?
As far as my relationship with hubby has seen its ups and downs. We have always had a very good understanding but the good old inlaws always tried to change things but Alhumdolillah we came out stronger.
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we’ve only been married hmmm just over two months now..
we have our arguments, who doesnt? they’re very normal for a healthy relationship… me thinks. You possibly cant agree on everything! nevertheless, we have a really good understanding.. Alhamdulillah (even though we’re always complaining the other doesnt understand us… hehe)
my inlaws are great… no complains about them..
our arguments are self created… they’re more to do with not getting enuff time together.. and stress…
i love my hubster more after arguments… 
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I agree with you, Sadzz. It is something about the arguments and lil fights that bring you more closer. I love the making up part after an argument:)
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^ haha.. yeap... the making up part is great :D
i dont understand people who dont argue.. i mean, arguing is ok..fighting is a different story.. nahin?
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Yup, you are right. Arguments are part of a healthy relationship!
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not married...but hey if we can argue withn family and friends...y not with our partner? They're just a healthy part of a relationship!
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mahru and sadzzz, please, idher kuNware bhi aatay haiN, besharmi ki baataiN na karaiN. shukria.
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besharmi?
we said "making up" not "making out"
:)
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Hmmm we hardly ever fight, its been like this for two years now. We are very clear with each other though and very honest, so hardly have any problems
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Have the odd disagreement every now and then, but no major 'fights' or arguments. Both very good at avoiding potential arguments. For now anyway.
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When ppl ask us about our relationship, i usually say that's very volatile but stable. We fight/argue at least once a week i think. We are very different, it's hard not to and we both challenge each other a lot. Sometimes things escalate because we know exactly how to push each other's buttons. But, there are never any grudges and ultimately we know no one else would love us as much as we do and i guess that's the bottom line. We always come to some sort of understanding that makes us both happy. It's weird, we don't really fight/argue about anything serious, just small things.
I don't think fighting/arguing is a bad thing at all. I wouldn't trade a single second of it. I would even venture to say that sometimes it's fun :)
As for good understanding, i would say that is always there.
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im in the same boat as sadzz (who, by the way, still didnt send me her shadi pics......).. my hubby and i fight for dumb reasons...and by the time we MAKE UP...i usually forget what we were fighting about..lol...im not more of a fighting person..im more of the silent treatment person..and im really good at that...lol...
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We have a pretty good understanding and our communication has gotten better since we got married but we definitely have room for improvements. We do get upset with each other once in a while but we try to calm down before we say anything.
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we started out really rocky in our relationship but then we took time to understand eachother's temperaments and I would venture to say that things have done a 180 for us alhamdulillah. As my hubby says, he has changed a lot in the past year or so. Since we are in a long distance relationship we can't really afford to argue as we feel absolutely miserable afterwards.
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I believe it’s possible to fight a lot and still have very good (if not excellent) understanding.
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We have good understanding, without that i don't think we wud have come as far as we have. Today, things r a lot like they were when we first met...it just got icky in the middle period...we do argue sometimes, but it's usually over and done with quickly and most of the time i don't even remember wot we were arguing about! So it's silly really, but to me, it's all part of a loving and strong relationship. Of course where there r highs there will be lows too.
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EXTREMELY VOLATILE...............
but like the others said we do make up!!!!
but i am at a phase in my marriage where i like my space now and don't mind even if we don't make up!!!!!!!!(for a few days).......
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Well, we didnt have any fight for the first 3 years of our marriage. Right now we do argue sometimes, but yeah making up part is good :)
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^ wow..that's really good. it's hard to find someone like that these days..
good for you two ..