Re: rasmas - mehendi and ubtan
im not having a mayoun, but at my mehendi, it'll roughly be like gemini outlined... andrew will walk in, then my cousins with the trays of mehendi will walk in, then i'll walk in, then we do the rasams where people give you money and bless you (saat suhagan i think its called?), feed you mithai, put some mehendi on the leaf you're holding in your palm, etc... and then there'll be dandiyan and my cousins will do some bollywood style dancing and the dhol and singing and then dinner and then some more partying and then people head home! oh and in there somewhere, i'm going to make andrew and his groomsmen do some sort of bhangra haha and i also plan to get up and join my cousins in some sort of choreographed routine... should be fun!