Ramadan trend: Iftar emerges as high-profile social event

i haven’t been on GS too much lately, and normally an article like this i would’ve immediately posted in general instead of religion, but it seems as though general has become more and more cafe-esque in time…regardless, i’ll post this here for now, but if mods find it better suited to religion or culture, do your thing

this is a bit long, but trust me its worth a read…my somewhat lengthy reply is at the bottom :slight_smile:

Ramadan trend: Iftar emerges as high-profile social event | csmonitor.com

i have mixed feelings about this whole “trend”

on one hand, its good for people to be more confident about practicing their religion publicly, its nice to see nonmuslim companies understanding and participating in our traditions and cultures for the sake of their employees, it’s good for people to get together in Ramadan and break their fasts together, it’s good for people to provide iftar for other people…

on the other end, the excessive spending, and seemingly extravagant display appears directly at odds with the whole point of Ramadan…when this is a month of self-control, humility, meditation, and reflection with the purpose of bringing us closer to God and Islam while getting a taste of how those much less fortunate than us live, spending that much and turning it into something rivaling high class weddings and galas seems in extremely poor taste and in direct opposition to the whole point of this month…the excess money is better spent in donations to the poor ($70000 to feed 700 people? that is $100 a person, you do not need to spend that much per person in an iftar)…i feel like it turns it into something of a mockery

in the end, i like the idea as its just a larger scale of something people do in ramadan anyhow and from my experience something that is done relatively well, i like that people, politicians, and governments are reveling in their faith and i like that corporations and other institutions are embracing the concept and getting involved…but there has to be some sort of line drawn somewhere in deference to the month of Ramadan and the whole point of this holy month

Re: Ramadan trend: Iftar emerges as high-profile social event

If Islamic spirit of simplicity is lacking from anything and it is source of show of power , opulence and wealth how can it be called a Islamic tradition.
If Iftaars are arranged as Masjid , Mandir , and Church for community building purposes and for bringing the community together then it can be classified as Islamic tradition.
Community building or community bonding should be the theme and purpose of Iftars. Any worldly purposed behind iftar is just a mockry of a this Islamic tradition.
I have deliberately kept the family or friend parties out of the picture because this article is not about them any way.

yeah the only reason i brought up family/friend iftars are that the comparison is inevitable and there's always the chance for some that it is just a social event

anyhow, the whole article is food for thought i think

Indeed it is.