...Ramadan Pet Peeves...

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Re: …Ramadan Pet Peeves…

@Shikra

I have 2 for now:

1. Dad expects us to be in wazu when we are eating sehri. After eating, we (everyone except him) sit for a minute, you know, trying to understand what the heck is going on at 5 in the morning? He asks us almost everyday “Kis kiska wazu hai?”…of course nobody raises hands and then he gives us this look “kuch nahi honey wala tum logon ka” I mean come on dad!!! It’ll only take 5-7 minutes for all to do wazu, normally there should be a gap of about 10-15 minutes between the sehri time and fajar prayer but he expects us to be READY when we come to eat.

I kind of agree with your dad on this one (that is if you all pray in jamaat)…imagine a household full of people…now imagine how long it will take EVERYONE to do wudu. It may take you 5 mins… but what if it takes your wife 10 minz (maybe she wants to do a few things here and there before she does wuzu) or your bro 20 minz (because he is feeling tired and lazy and is doing everything slooowly) Now…if everyone just gets up…does wudu and comes down to eat…everyone will be ready right away when it is time for fajr. WOW …you know what…I am gonna implement this rule in my home when I have my own family inshAllah

ok so my pet peeve…

It bothers me when I prepare a nice sehri…everything is warm and crisp…and people wander down the stairs like 5 minutes before fajr to eat …the foods gone cold and it just doesnt taste the same anymore!!! angry face ticks me off!! My BIL’s do this!!