Farmeh, i am rajput too, but again married couple of years back!
for people who are bashing castes, there is nothing wrong with castes and tribes according to islam while eveyone is equal castes and tribe as made so people can recognise each other and families better. Prophet Mohammad PBUH himself belongs to Quresh tribe of Arbia, a respectable one in the society.
and i agree with Fatema, people from same background clicks easily. as there are some traits passed onto generations that stays common. that includes good and bad.
but some people fake castes i dont know for what reason may be perpetuate or get respect in the society. there are hardly people who keep original castes.
nothing against the real moghals, but mostly now people dont take pride being Lohar/ or carpenters but instead started using Moghals as their castes. sad but true. same goes for other such non existent castes ie you will not see many people taking pride as being Kumars, lohar, tarkhan, darzi etc.
yeah, u r absolutely right.what had i said,or did i insult anybody,nor i was ignorant.every muslim is equal,exceptone who had bad traits.Our family believes in cast system ,so, whats wrong with it?are we out of Islam?No,Our Mazhab says when u r getting married ,first look 4 rishta in ur family,then cast ,or ur tribe then so on..