Re: raising mothers not wives
actually code-red this post was aimed at people like you! who can it fact, it apears at least - read! don’t patronize us with “graduation is good enough for future mothers”!!! are u a future a mother, or a mother presently!!! then truly speaking unless u have a phd in sociology and women psyche, you dont get to decide what is “good enough” education for women!
The point of this post, which seems to have been obvioulsy lost on you! was quite simply that women are very actively, in our soceity, discouraged from pursuing higher (i.e. graduate school: masters, phd, J.D. etc) type education b/c parents fear it might render them unmarriageable! but when what we aspire to be is a society of well educated people, lawyers, doctors, psychologists, whatever… then we need to not curb half of our population from pursuing such education, pursuing such knowledge.
Like i said we need balance, we need the ying and yang to be balanced! We cant have the yang better educated and dominating our society b/c then we will not be a healthy society! we need our ying to be just as educated, just as powerful!
So really get out of our way…or we will run you over!! MAN! 
hihihi:D