Do you know who starts personal abuses and use such language in argument with others? They are themselves of the character what they call to others and show their brought ups and background.
As about Imran Khan being good looks, maybe you had crash on him and might be having dream of sex-change for yourself, but in West (where I lived and moved a lot) he is no exceptional nor his looks is big deal. Maybe you never spent bachelor life in west but in western countries it is how you present yourself and behave in society that make you attractive rather than looks.
As for being discrete about their personal life: Fact is that many Desis in West have done things that they should not do and Imran is no exceptional. Imran was a sportsman and thus a known personality. All known personalities get attention when they start doing things in public that they should not do as Western press are always looking for such news. Since Imran never cared of his reputation rather used such cheep tricks to build up reputation and becoming a news item, he did all in public and thus became attention of press.
Stories of his moving around from one women to another and getting used as condom providing saucy stories to Western tabloids of his love lives caused him to became press attention, else saucy stories in press about ‘party night where he was jumping in bed with Sita White and talking about leaving dough in her womb to turn into bun’ would not have got out in western tabloids.
Actually for Pakistanis, his saucy stories of love exploits, even things like he is homo or hetro, would not have mattered but became important once he got into politics and tried to get into circle that could affect security and future of Pakistan. One can understand from this fact that his Sita White story and many of his other sexual exploits were in large unknown to Pakistani communities and no one was bringing that on surface before he got into politics.
Even then, things got worrying not because of his sexual exploits but because of his close personal association with powerful communities who are considered as enemies of Pakistan and Islam (Western Jews and circles close to Israel and India who could harm Pakistan).
It is unfortunate that instead of directly showing concerns of his solid connections with Western powerful Jewish and other communities, stories of sexual exploits were used to create same outcome, but that is how Pakistanis work. For many, Imran is a perfect implant in Pakistani politics by these powers to harm Pakistan (right and wrong does not matter as risk is there and risk is too much … though with time, things are becoming more clear and worse).
Many know that apart of implanting, these powers are doing all to protect their implants. They use everything in their power to defuse this thinking and they try to attack any such thoughts once mentioned. So, to counter that here is further explanations.
To implant a person in Pakistan, person needs to be from dominating Pakistani community who could reach highest post and could be brainwashed and programmed mentally to follow instructions obediently under certain circumstances when needed. For such, the person needs to get to these people in trustworthy relationship and unaware of real purpose of that relationship.
People in army cannot be implanted effectively in large and organised army (like Pakistan army) because once a person joins army, all their movements are monitored, plus no one can tell who would reach how high in army before they join armed forces. Hence, people can get implanted in political, civil and bureaucratic circles and these powers do that. But again, not all persons and political leaders could be useful as their usefulness is most effective only if they can get to crucial posts themselves in person (Prime Minister, home minister, defence minister, etc).