R u weird? how?

Lifestyle Relationships
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do people know about their “weirdnesses” ?

there is this guy i know who’s really “feminine”…like his style of speaking, tone of his voice, the way he walks, the way he moves his hand while speaking, etc..and he even says “hayay Allllahhhh” and “uffff hoooo” and “nai naaaa” and in a typical aunty like style, and sometimes when he’s trying to act funny he flutters his eyelashes…he also hangs out with girls most of the time…

i always wonder…does he realise people perceive him as feminine? i mean, the other day he walked in and my friend asked “ye kia cheez hae” … obviously referring to his “feminine-ness”…

hmmm…

i would feel sorry for him, but he’s a bit stuck up and moody with a bad temper/disposition so i dont feel sorry for him :stuck_out_tongue: besides, im thinking, im sure he knows ppl perceive him as that? or does he not? :konfused:

which brings me to think: im prolly weird in many ways and i prolly dont even realise it…i think im generally composed but my weirdness is sometimes i can get extremely shy/uncomfy when i meet ppl for the first time, specially ppl who seem the “confident/assertive” type or when i am being analysed, or if i am put in a public spot. my brain totally ceases to have control over my body functions and to cover up my awkwardness/nervousness i either totally dont say anything or act louder and more talkative than normal. plus i start scratching my head or blinking my eyes faster than normal or coughing while speaking or adjusting and readusting my dupatta one million times :smiley:

hehehehehe :stuck_out_tongue:

what abt u guys? :smiley: do u think u have some weirdness about you?

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im not weird…im unique :smooth:

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irem,....nice to know you r as much wierd as i am .....!!!

i do the same n due to same reasons .....n its more wierd in my case when i'm not a bachi but an ammaN.!

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Afia baji u r not much older than me and i am also not a bachi anymore :smiley: and i have many more weird things abt me waise this post is just a small trailor :hehe:
specially the sar khujaaing part is bad, ppl will think i got joovein in my hair or something :smiley:
but some people are really so composed all the time, im sure they also feel nervous at times, but they hide it well…lekin in my case i think it becomes obvious :bummer:

M_M :smiley: come on now spill the beans :stuck_out_tongue:

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Forget wierd..Im FREAKY! WHy? Coz when I love something it becomes an obsession..people, work, chocolate...and it harms me..and very often the people around me too...

But it happens once ina while and it'snot always damaging..sometimes it does a lot fo good too :D

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theres nowt to spill chick, i got sick of people saying i was weird like it was some sort of disease!!! i mean how do u define wierd? whats normal/weird for u is not for others…its time to embrace ur unquieness not lable it as being weird!!!

But i supppse to sum up my uniquness…ermm…the only one im willing to share is my abilty and drive to stress abt everything!! i love being stressed, seriously, i stress when i have nothing to stress about!!! and i LOVE it!!

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LK i think we've all got that in us in different degrees :D dont worry :D

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:hehe: thas cute :slight_smile:

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Irem you FREAk you :hehe:

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:blush:

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Irem, the description of your friend/acquaintance reminds me of Babar from Moorat.

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I m weird too :smiley:

If I m bored, I fall asleep :smiley:

I dont care where it is :smiley:
its out of my control :bummer:

one day I was with some uncles and they were talking to me aswell about politics and all kind of complot theorys :silly:

and I tried to listen, but I couldnt for long :smiley:
so after a while I fell asleep :smiley:

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Man, I’m weird.

I’m too embarrassed too give details. But sometimes even my family gives me puzzled looks. :blush:

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Yes i am also weird :-s ! ppl says that everything about me is stupid and weird , the way i deal with things and ppl around me is weird and i am annoying :(..

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i read books while walking to class. i get referred to as "weird" for that.

:(

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I dunno about wierd but I'm definitely a little crazy... you'd be too if you were stuck working with women and children 40 hrs each week for the last 3 years almost. lol

The children are acutally alot easier to deal with lol

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^where do you work ?

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oh no…looks like gupshup is full of weirdoes :hehe:

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hahahah :smiley:

I had the same problem :stuck_out_tongue:

I almost got expelled for reading books during classes :silly:

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I don’t know about my weirdness but I had a dream last night irem, and you were telling me your passwords and one of them was “her” written 5 times like this: herherherherher and another password was a long sentence :konfused: