Reduced to what exactly? :aq: At the weddings which I have seen this happening, when the bride reaches her susraal the Quran is opened and read. I do not see the Quran being disrespected, thus do not understand you saying that is being reduced to anything.
As for ‘being worthy’ of holding the Quran, I do not think we can judge who is worthy and who isnt. Of course it would be very wrong if someone touched the Quran without wudhu but we would hope that all Muslims have enough sense to do wudhu before touching.