angel21 i found it really hard to read ur post n understand it.anyways i finally did get the idea wat u r talking abt.ur friends needs to understand her husband's priorities.If hes busy for a while still at the end he'll come back so instead of acting immature or ignore too much she should leave him short sweet voice msg,wait for the right moments to b together n make that time as much pleasant as possible.fighting,complaining will just make him more distant.to get wat she wants she needs to b tactful.as someone said"bees come over honey not vinegar"
hey sorry mabrook ive got such a bad habit of typin in slang :S ill try not too